Are Europeans cheaper than Americans?

Throwaway0220170 · 2020-01-19T16:46:08+00:00

We're cheaper in general in Northern Europe, both sexes are. We're also not a very warm people in comparison to other cultures. Though the men are on a whole new level.

Their idea of equality is that you both have fulltime jobs and pay 50/50, but you still have to look like a model, do all the chores, take care of the children. I mean it with the 50/50. He won't even pay for a water bottle for you. He'll keep record of everything and expect you to pay it back to the cent. You're allowed to be feminist the way they want you to be. You cannot be a real strong woman, you can only provide the appearance of one. They don't actually respect your job, even though they expect you to pay with the money you earned from that job.

Also the men do nothing for their appearance. They are tall beanstalks, still look like 12 year old boys until they actually do hit the wall and all of the sudden look ancient. It's like one day they look like a child, the next they have a receding hairline and wrinkles, while still just being a tall beanstalk.

Yet they demand model level women. The women in my country are definitely beautiful, they have way more to offer than any man in general. Yet all the men complain about is how we are too feminist, but at the same time they keep using that to guilt trip us into paying 50/50. They complain about women wearing jeans, so they import mail order brides and abuse them. Or they just go to the red light district on a regular basis.

I haven't had to pay on a date yet, but I do hear all the other women complaining about it, and I hear the men saying they make the women do so.

Amy3e13 · 2020-01-19T18:04:07+00:00

Sounds like Italy to me, especially the part about worshipping blonde blue eyed women. 😅 God, I'm glad I don't live there anymore.

And as someone who has lived in both America and multiple European countries I can tell you: YES, Europeans generally are cheaper than Americans and more likely to pull that 50/50 bs.

May26th · 2020-01-19T16:51:30+00:00

Yes, in my experience and what I've heard from friends, European men are way cheaper.

MaliceInLalaLand · 2020-01-19T15:58:09+00:00

Eastern European here. Had similar experiences. And another thing I noticed is men pointing out how much they spent on you on dates and expecting to get something in return. Which is gross even if they don’t demand something sexual bc it totally spoils any fun you might have had with that person. (And people who would rather pay a sex worker than buy their date a drink are delusional and highly underestimate the cost of those type of services)

YeolsansQ · 2020-01-19T15:47:17+00:00

I don't live in America or Europe, but i live in Turkey where there is a tradition of "men always pay". If you try to pay in a date, men get offended. This tradition changes slightly in new generations but in the majority of the cases men pays. It doesnt even matter If the woman is rich and the man is poor.

drragonbones · 2020-01-19T17:26:38+00:00

yes but it's more like a sliding scale of trash and europeans are higher up the scale.

CountBubblegum · 2020-01-19T21:14:25+00:00

Eastern European here. I feel your pain. Men here are even worse, so anyone from other parts of Europe seems just fine. I traveled Europe a lot and must say that you tend to have decent guys too, even though they're pretty rare. HVM are always the minority so sometimes it looks like everyone around you is LV. Considering the rising popularity of incel movement and unlimited access to porn more and more LVM tend to act delusional and entitled.

toxicwasteofspace · 2020-01-19T20:09:15+00:00

Yes they are much cheaper. Fellow Italian here but I get lots of American matches on Tinder because of transfer students + Vicenza army guys. I'm just a young student so it's not like I have high expectations, but local dudes literally won't pay for more than a coffee while Americans will offer right off the bat to take you on a movie + pizza date (doesn't sound like a big deal but again, we're just young students). I think a big part of it is just that they're more chilled out, Europeans feel like going on a date is on the same level of commitment as asking for your hand in marriage. Girls and guys my age will basically spend months texting each other before they go on a single date, it drives me fucking insane.

espelhosdagua · 2020-01-20T02:04:29+00:00

If anyone is curious about dating in Norway (I guess it applies to Scandinavia/Norden), it's well explained here (I can't even) https://www.thesocialguidebook.no/blogs/norwegian-culture/dating-in-norway-2019.

And from what I've seen, the women take initiative most the time. The handsome guys just stand there and get approached.

MyNeferTitty · 2020-01-19T16:16:20+00:00

American men do the same thing.

But why is your bff with a Master's degree dating a porter/driver?

Mental-Pineapple · 2020-01-19T19:06:15+00:00

Yeah i like american guys better

Capitalism FTW

eliogabalus86 · 2020-01-19T16:10:12+00:00

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naenita_ · 2020-01-20T08:23:48+00:00

Not from America, I'm from Latin America and I find guys that have taken me out on dates always want to pay and might even get a bit annoyed if you keep insisting on paying.

Met a guy in Italy and I tried paying for me and my sisters coffee but he took care of it - never asked me to 50/50 lol

I'm also brown eyed, I'm a fake blonde and I'm not sure about my skin color... in my home country I'm considered pretty white, they might even think I'm a foreigner but anywhere else I'd say I'm just beige 😅

From my sister's experience she prefers dating European men in general and is actually dating an italian guy. She is very tall, dark hair, dark eyes and tan skin. She says European men are less sexist.

maserlaser · 2020-01-19T16:36:42+00:00

I lived in Sweden for a while so I can chime in a bit. The part about splitting bills etc. is just part of the culture there. The Nordic countries tend to be very socially progressive, which in part translates to women having mostly equal pay, generous access to healthcare, education, and welfare and quite equal rights. On the flip side it means that men and women tend to shoulder the burden equally including on aspects like dating from the get-go.

I wouldn't say it's a matter of Swedish men being cheap or Swedish women being pickmeishas. It's just common sense over there that because men and women are very equal and make the same amount of money then things should be split in a balanced way. Of course, people do make allowances for disparities in salaries if they exist, but equality is generally the norm.

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GCchick · 2020-01-19T22:21:41+00:00

Don't fetish shame me!

I have a thing for Italian men... I confess, I really like them... They're exotic to me and the language is probably the one spoken in Heaven, so when they speak I just melt.

They're followed closely by spanish guys, I think I just like dark featues and foreign people (unconsciously looking for genetic diversity?).

So here you come, spoiling everything!

Title	Are Europeans cheaper than Americans?
Author	cottoncandy240
Upvotes	38
Comments	63
Date	January 19, 2020 12:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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