Why don't Men Realize that Not Caring about Women's Sexual Pleasure will Cause Women not to want Sex with them?

This was deleted in the purplepilldebate sub so here it is:

I really don't understand it. Lots of men online talk about how it's beta or cucked to care about a woman's sexual pleasure or even deny women have a sexuality at all. Then these same men are the ones who complain that women don't want to have sex with them. Gee, taking the risk for pregnancy and STDs for something that isn't pleasurable isn't something women want to do. No shocker there.

I just don't understand it. It's like opening up a restaurant to make money, then saying it's cucked to care about making good food for the customers then complaining when you go out of business. If you don't care about making good food and you don't have a giant monopoly then you'll go out of business. It seems obvious and simple. I don't understand how people online can be so stupid.