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Kimynna · 2020-04-07T16:44:06+00:00

My last ex had a Google drive filled with racy photos of our mutual friends from high school. Pictures of girls we knew, who would post bikini pictures of themselves on social media. He would screenshot the photos from their Instagrams or other social media and use them to jack off every single day.

I’m still reeling at how I kept quiet about it for 5 months after finding that stash, then stayed with him for an additional 6 months while he continued to betray my trust. I also had to explain to him why it was not acceptable behavior — as if it wasn’t clear enough.

What a waste of time on a disgusting man.

alchademy · 2020-04-07T15:06:36+00:00

Damn God’s signs are getting clearer & clearer aren’t they but I’m still out here clowning🤡🤡

modernmedusaa · 2020-04-07T18:09:28+00:00

Yeah and ask yourself why he even has a porn addiction in the first place? Cos that’s pretty fucking cringe to me and shows a lack of stability/ self-control which is low value. There was something repelling women away from him to the point where he spent ages sexless getting a porn addiction, or he’s delusional and went for women out his league getting rejected, or he kept getting rejected and ending up dumped due to being an asshole ...so he turned to porn full time & now he can’t stop . Low value man.

The mental image of a grown 30 yr old man constantly wanking under their duvet to some PAID actors pretending to love anal on a screen with a roll of tissue next to them is truly embarrassing . More embarrassing is they think that’s what women want in real life when it’s geared towards Male FANTASY. It’s like they’re that virgin boy in Malena but they got stuck in that stage and refused to grow up.

Porn keeps men socially incompetent and sex crazed till the point real life doesn’t even stimulate them enough when they do get it. It’s been linked to reduced grey matter in the front cortex and erectile dysfunction so if they have an addiction- good luck with that . Not to mention how much of a serial cheat risk pornsick men are and how violent porn obsessed men can soon fly off the rails & turn criminal.

Check out this murderer who was a pathological liar that played on women’s sympathies and groomed women into violent sex and had a porn addiction:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8026649/Grace-Millane-killers-pathological-lies-Failed-salesman-lived-fantasy-life.html

Enjoy jail scrote.

Healthy men don’t need porn 24/7 because they can keep a good woman in their life, so there’s less reason to be on porn all the time. Also they have hobbies and things to do that fulfil them outside of sex. They don’t act like a primitive ape 24/7. They act an evolved 21st century human.

The scrotes and losers all have porn addictions because they’re always being rejected /found out for being an asshole and ending up sexless. Or ignored Cos they’re incompetent and overentitled. And their entire ego revolves around sex sex sex, and they can’t see women as anything other than sex objects to be consumed- so they can’t function without it. They go full circle.

Plus porn is full of pedo rape fantasy shit, do you really want a man like that around your teen daughters developing? I certainly fucking don’t. And I wouldn’t want them raising a young boy to be the next generation of pornsick pathological lying scrote either.

seraphinelysion · 2020-04-07T15:22:35+00:00

I was on a date with this guy who said he loved to build things like furniture and what not, so I asked if he had any pictures of the stuff he made that he could show me. He whipped out his phone and I'm not sure if he was on IG or what, but the first thing that popped up was a nearly naked photo of a woman. He cleared it off his phone quickly and I don't think he noticed that I saw it. Turned me right off and I already knew I was never going to see this guy again.

Edit: Moral of the story... It doesn't even need to be full fledged porn. I won't stand for any objectification.

comeongoldilocks · 2020-04-07T16:38:33+00:00

Yep, can confirm. Even if they say they’ve gotten over and don’t watch anymore. The obsession with sex was still there and completely took over our relationship.

shellshocked8 · 2020-04-07T15:20:18+00:00

This needs to be written in every women's bathroom across the globe.

draylth · 2020-04-07T15:45:17+00:00

Well, now I know why I need to carry a sharpie. And possibly sticky notes. What a great idea!

AspenGoddess · 2020-04-08T00:21:03+00:00

Can I crosspost this to r/pornfreerelationships??

greenteaapplepie69 · 2020-04-07T17:24:03+00:00

Based and pinkpilled

heavymedalist · 2020-04-08T13:41:41+00:00

Rant— a LVM that had issues performing would take pills and sensitizing sprays before sex, once I guess there was a mental block too and he pulled out his phone to watch porn...whilst inside me. I guess my face/shock gave it away because I was speechless and he was like “oh you don’t like it?”.

I had so many thoughts and it knew this wasn’t an issue I wanted to deal with. The porn choice, his masturbation habits, and overall fantasies were horrendous and despite even telling him to his face he was a fuckboy, he’d be like “oh you’re so honest thank you, you’re right, it’s refreshing, we have great chemistry “ Etc. but never he fully learned address the issue and stop treating women like pockets.

Also, he was 27 and lived at home. I met his mom only because she was home once, I felt bad for her too. In a lapse of judgement despite more than a year not seeing him. I had to see his mom again and she looked so tired to see anyone’s face. I wanted to be like oh you’ve met me before. I realized it wouldn’t/shouldn’t matter to her and also respect for me in that moment I wouldn’t have even give myself. I wouldn’t want a son to act like that, and seeing that moms face I hope she meets her future daughter in law in wayyyyy better circumstance.

SpiderrG · 2020-04-08T02:36:33+00:00

🙌🙌🙌🙌

MakingBadDecisions · 2020-04-08T08:24:54+00:00

I'm so glad I'm with an older guy. Porn isn't a thing for him. He prefers just having sex with me or using videos and photos of me instead of strangers if sex isn't possible. I started getting lots of ingrown hairs on my mons a while back and apologetically said "I think I need to stop shaving the majority of my bush. It's getting too painful and inconvenient."

He just wasn't even phased. He was like "I grew up with porn magazines where women had full grown pubic hair. I didn't see shaved pubes on a woman til I was already a grown man. I love a bush." Oh my God. Hottest thing ever after a life of men who think women with pubes are gross manbeasts.

Edit to add for clarity Me- F28 Him-M39

Title	This
Author	AspenGoddess
Upvotes	1214
Comments	34
Date	April 7, 2020 2:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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