Today is the day I kick this motherfucker out of my house and ladies.. this is what I have learned. Stay DILIGENT. Because honestly, I have always been super independent and not one to put up with people shit. Especially men. I met this guy, we dated, my adult daughter had JJUST moved out of the house and he moved in. BAD IDEA. I had never lived with anyone before and we were spending a lot of time together, we connected, he was fine as hell and I said hey.. fuck it. Youve never done this before.

WELL first of all, hes a fucking slob. He has ugly dude shit literally all over what was once my beautiful historic 1820s house that i had beautifully decorated before he moved in. Second of all, he moved a bunch of ugly shit in my house without talking to me first. So my house now looks like an episode of hoarders. Then COVID hit and he lost his job. I am certain he could have received unemployment but he never even applied. Leaving me to carry both of us because I kept my day job (I am also a DJ and lost all my side gigs so even though I was working, I still took a financial hit) He literally pays his cable (that was hIS BILL that he had to move over to my place because he was in a contract) and thats it. To top it off, I now have to go back to the office. I come home and the fucking house is wreck, hes been laying around all day long, his ugly shit is also now dirty, dishes in the sink. I came to find out after moving in together that his hygeine is gross. He showers MAYBE once a week YET he wants sex every other day. If I say no, he sulks and slams shit around which has resulted in multiple fights where he then proceeds to gaslight and say he wasnt actually do that when he was.

I put this off because I felt bad because I thought he had nowhere to go and shit its crazy times. But know what? FUCK THIS. If I werent here he would have had to apply for unemployment and take care of himself. I just raised a daughter (who btw pays 700 a month in rent for her place every month) and now Im raising another adult? I also realized the other day that piecing together his past that this is what he does. This is what he did with his ex. She moved out in March. We got together in May and his idea to move in with me in August. I know that was too soon but I felt safe because I knew him for many years. To be honest, he will just find another chick to move in with after me Im pretty sure.

Beware of these man children. Dont be stupid like me. I KNEW better. I am the one who tells people to not be dumb fucking assholes. Im still feeling shitty and Im still feel bad and I still care, but FUCK HIM. If I can raise a kid by myself for 21 years, he as a grown ass man can take care of himself.