In my readings of various sidebar material and their offshoots, I’ve come across a particular type of shit test that I thought I’d ask the sub about. There are different types of shit tests, but one that I’m having difficulty wrapping my head around is this idea that asking for a favor or a request to do something is in itself a shit test. The example I have seen is: “can you get me a cup of coffee?”
Now my wife asks me for a drink every once in a while. She can get it herself but she asks me to get it. I never really considered it a shit test and she always says thank you afterwards. But of course, she can certainly get it herself. So I’ve always interpreted this sort of ask as a comfort test because it’s not focused on me at all but on what she wants. But after some readings I’m not as sure. So any thoughts about a wife specifically asking for her husband to get her an iced tea from the fridge about 2-4 times a week, or more generally asking for favors period?