I am really unhappy with myself and where my career is at the moment. I built up experience in a sector that I no longer want to be in and I feel trapped in a low income field . I know that it will take many years to get to where I’d actually like to be and right now it is seriously affecting my self-esteem. This has gone on for a couple years now and I’m worried by the time I’ll be ready to date I’ll have missed out On prime years. I’m already in my late 20s. And having a career that is fulfilling to me is very important to me.

I know they say we should learn to love ourselves before we can let someone else. But I don’t feel that I will be able to love myself until I am in the career that I feel I would be feeling my purpose in.