This isn't about how you're too scared of success or some deeper meaning. It's just about how odds are, if you're on here obsessing over strategy and filling deficits you have from years of failing with women, you're overlooking some basics, and if you had the chance to get what you want right now, some basic things would interfere with you having the best time that you could.

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Keep you house clean. It's part of being a man. Idk I guess Peterson said it, now years later I'm saying it because... Part of your brain knows that you're not going to take that perfect 10 back to your place more than once if it's actually dirty as hell. So how are you really going to try?

Keep your house, your car and your body at +45 minutes clean. As in, one of your plates says "hey i'll be over in 60 minutes" instead of saying "oh fuck this place is a disaster that smells bad and I only have shitty clothes to wear, and this, and that will go wrong. and my car is a crime scene. she's going to sit on a pile of garbage in the front seat..."

Instead, you have no problem making everything up to par in that time. Not perfect always, just 45 minutes away from presentable, means being better than most guys.

In those 45 minutes, the few dirty dishes are done, laundry is where it belongs, you're shaved, showered, you're done getting dressed in the clothes you like, because they are clean, and you don't have to worry about your date finding a half a sandwich under your couch from a week ago.

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Now I know some dirty motherfucker's about to type "this doesn't really matter because if your game is amazing and you gym then she'll meet you in a porta potty on the side of the highway" or some other excuse... Or "don't ever care about what she thinks". And ignore the many other benefits that come along with it.

Just have some self respect and clean your house. I say this as a very disorganized person. After enough practice it gets easier. And you will see the rewards