About three years ago I was with a LV momma's boy. Let's call hem J. I was in my PickMe/KinkMe phase and this guy was... Clueless. Really immature, inexperienced when it came to sex and had his mother coming over every day to clean his house. A few months in, he was way too dull for me in every aspect. He was jealous, controlling and herrassing me about every choice I made. The sex was boring, although he had a very good penis (so I knew it could be better).

So I asked J. his 'porn preferences' since I wanted to cater to his every need. I was expecting threesomes, some play with toys. Maybe some 'BDSM' since I was 'sooooooooo into that'. J. told me that he needed to watch and think. I wanted us to have good sex SO damn bad, I agreed; anything to make the sex better.

About a week later J. returned to me to tell me about his "exquisite taste in porn". I happily listened, since 'I was down for anything'. He straight up told me that he watched, but he couldn't help notice that he was attracted to porn with asian girls. Anime/hentai, I asked? No. A big dick guy with real asian women.

Let me tell you that I'm as blonde and blue eyed as they come. I was devastated. I could've worked with ANYTHING. I would've done EVERYTHING to spice up our sex life. I cried for days over not being able to become Asian. Fuck, I even think I looked up surgery to 'look more Asian'. Out of every little kink or preference, he chose the one I won't ever fullfil.

And this dear ladies, is why we don't put up with such crap. ❤️ Dump him when he doesn't fullfil you. Don't try to make it work. Something that doesn't work will never work.