What is a good reason for getting marry?

ReeeeDrumpf · 2021-06-02T11:17:04+00:00

It provides no benefit to you other than a status symbol and better taxes. People like married men, they come off as more trust worthy and stable.

Married women gain a ton though. For daughters, getting married is the best advice you can give her.

Check your area, just living with a woman makes you common-law, and prenups are up to the judge. They can be thrown out if deemed cruel and unfair to the ex-wife.

Where I live just living together makes you common law married. And prenups are treated as toilet paper.

CrYpToMoOnHuNt · 2021-06-02T10:52:08+00:00

Theres no good reason. It‘s high risk of getting divorce raped and little to none reward

MusicgoonV2 · 2021-06-02T11:08:49+00:00

You get married if you like having your life ruined or if you're looking for an excuse to jump off a bridge. Maybe you have a fetish for being treated like a piece of shit simply for being a man.

Or maybe you're very poor and the girls family is paying you thousands of dollars to get her a green card?

If you want to know what it's like to get married, cash out your life savings and light it on fire. Destroy all of your possessions. Smash you balls with a hammer and do something that will put you in prison. When you get out of prison you need to ensure you're homeless.

Getting married is the worst idea a man can ever make. Nothing to gain.

MattyAnon · 2021-06-02T14:26:30+00:00

There is only one good reason to get married: you are female.

BasilevsNihili · 2021-06-02T12:04:29+00:00

There is no reason, stop looking for reasons to be a blue pill cuck.

7SAS7 · 2021-06-02T11:33:15+00:00

The only good reason for getting married is when you have kids.

Personally, I’m not having kids until I’m 100% convinced I am with a woman who is capable of raising kids while also being married.

The purpose of marriage is to solidify the relationship commitment when having children. There is absolutely nothing worse than raising kids as a single parent. A vast majority of the issues we see in society are the product of broken homes and single parent households.

If you’re going to have children, you best hope it’s a woman you can safely marry without the anxiety of “divorce rape”. Of course, divorce may still happen, but if you find the right woman, you will (probably) be fine.

The people you hear on TRP are primarily men who picked the wrong woman from the start and are subsequently traumatised by their divorce. Don’t listen to everyone on TRP. There’s a lot of negative opinions on marriage around here, and for fair reason. Make your own judgement based on your own values.

legospartan · 2021-06-02T15:14:59+00:00

Fucking losers, most of you.

There are serious advantages to marriage. 1st is raising children if you want great kids they need an environment to thrive in. 2nd if she’s a house wife there are advantages to that too. 3rd if she works or has a hustle you just got another income cograds on the new boat.

Yes most of these things can be solved by hiring a 3rd party to do all the above however the odds are you’ll never afford it.

Divorce rape can be avoided with an iron clad pre-nups and hide your fucking money. Bottom line is it’s TRP on hard mode. Only get married when your frame is bulletproof otherwise you’re gonna have a bad time

ObjectiveDay8 · 2021-06-02T12:12:39+00:00

The kid thing is a conundrum. I am glad I have kids I feel like they are the only people on this planet other than my parents that actually really give a fuck about me. But regardless of statistics as to the better outcome for the child, I wasn’t going to stay with someone I couldn’t stand, no matter what the cost. I like having kids and not being married. It came at a big cost, though. With the divorce rates and general decline of civilization I think any man who uses the “I want kids” excuse to get married should brace himself for the split assets, support payments, attorney fees, and just in general rage that you will feel towards the person who your beloved children came out of. Divorce rates are over 50%, and divorce courts favor women. It matters fuck all what I or any other guy on this thread has been through, the facts are the facts.

Super_Ad_1226 · 2021-06-02T12:30:03+00:00

“ what’s a good reason to go to jail with no parole”

Zombiespire · 2021-06-02T12:24:01+00:00

Doing taxes is easier, but that should be your CPA's problem anyway. You can still become a de facto husband and wife (move in together, declare life long loyalty, even have children) without getting legally married and being legally liable for the outcome of the marriage.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-06-02T11:53:13+00:00

so OP has chosen death?

ObjectiveDay8 · 2021-06-02T10:55:48+00:00

NONE NONE NONE NONE NONE NONE NONE NONE NONE NONE NONE

ObjectiveDay8 · 2021-06-02T10:55:59+00:00

Just no, fuck no

Spirited-Foot · 2021-06-02T12:54:55+00:00

If you can sleep knowing you have 50/50 odds

Intrepid_Artist · 2021-06-02T13:12:41+00:00

Having kids and access to her family connection

I married girl from traditional east Confucius society. Her parents are conservative, so is whole wide family.

Honestly I gain more than her. I have acess to her family love, connection, as well wealth, residency, super low taxes on investment etc. My old folks are an average European family with house in countryside

When stock market fall last year, I borrowed 200k from in-laws . Double up in 6 months.

Point was playing game and show old fashion respect to her folks & culture. Gave cash, be kind, be humble before marriage. Anyway they return it back trough different channels. After marriage they let me be a man and lead family on my own.

My kids are raised up bilingual, parents in law are absolutely crazy about them. Wife siblings don't want to have kids. Most of their wealth will pass to my kids They spent summers in Asia, while I am careless whole summmer long. Usually I have a girl or two for summer, not sure either wife has side action too. Her thing. Raising 3 kids it's far from easy and during year we have no time.

For wife i think she likes Europe and slow pace of life. Can raise up kids without in-laws politics and still have long holidays wit her people.

Sex has changed after kids, her body has become more loose ofc, but I still love banging her everynight. Sometimes, we get horny during day and we lock ourself in room, while kids messing around house and infant cries as crazy.

I got lucky. Very lucky indeed. But I planned this very well. Even if divorce, we will still corporate well.

wkndatbernardus · 2021-06-02T13:25:29+00:00

Only marry if you're religious or philosophical background mandates it. These days men can do everything a marriage offers without signing on the dotted line so, why make yourself legally vulnerable if you don't have to?

alphabachelor · 2021-06-02T11:48:17+00:00

Your child is less likely to be abused, live in poverty or suffer from negative life outcomes (become a criminal dirtbag) if you are married. Even when compared to cohabiting couples.

So you have to decide if you want to have kids and expose yourself to the massive legal liability that is modern marriage. If you do not wish to have kids, there is zero reason to get married when you can cohabitate with zero or reduced legal liability. Double check with a lawyer in your jurisdiction to protect yourself.

ObjectiveDay8 · 2021-06-02T10:57:58+00:00

For whatever reason, blame Jews reptiles or aliens, western civilization is crumbling, and the architects of our destruction did it by getting to the women first. They are irredeemable and unfit as wives and mothers.

throwRA3141565 · 2021-06-02T14:34:46+00:00

you hate yourself

RoamFreely · 2021-06-02T11:25:28+00:00

Children and honestly if you were to be strategic about it, marry a women with similar resources as you and marry into a family of wealth and or access. Marriage used to be about the in-laws and building a network

JFeezy · 2021-06-02T15:38:28+00:00

My wife has her Masters and makes more than me as a Union Electrician. She also enjoys motorcycling, camping and the same shit. If it wasn’t for her I’d probably only have one bike in the garage instead of 3. Or couldn’t say I’ve been to Brazil for half a month. Or had a 3some in Brazil at that. The trick is finding someone with the same interests/goals as you.

beachbbqlover · 2021-06-02T12:39:21+00:00

Here:

No longer have to pursue women, no tinder, no spurious trips to the supermarket.
No flakes.
Lower STD risks.
Slightly higher statistical chance of sex.
5.Survey says better sex. Chances are she knows some of what you like and don't like and isn't going to shit on you in your sleep.
If you guide them right, they can help take care of things. Mine cooks, does groceries, and a fair bit of cleaning on top of having a job and making me lunches.
They can help you with your mission, but will expect special treatment over any staff, think co-executive, so you'd have to trust them alot.
You can start a family and the chances of being a part of it go up.
You will probably live longer and healthier.
Acceptable substitute for a dog if you have allergies.

Managing one is challenging though. Especially in the modern climate.

HillaryRodhamFan · 2021-06-02T11:55:37+00:00

Having a child.

BlondeHornyElf · 2021-06-02T12:24:51+00:00

- if she's rich

- if you're marrying into a powerful family you rly want to be a part of

- if you want to create that traditional environment for your children (no guarantees here tho)

other than that it's all liabilities

grittyrock · 2021-06-02T12:40:34+00:00

I'll keep it simple. Only 2 reasons -

If she's fucking rich. Like really really rich, your whole life will turn around.

Or

If you BOTH are in love and she loves you MORE than you love her. This will give you peace. You do need a partner in life, that's natural unless you're Kanye West rich. Then you need a Prenup first.

bazima · 2021-06-02T12:41:34+00:00

children

akihonj · 2021-06-02T12:55:42+00:00

The only good reason is that you live in a country where medical insurance is needed and she has it and you don't and marriage will put you on hers.

If you're truly red pill and chasing your goals, there is absolutely no reason to ever get married.

Think about it this way, would you buy a car with the same conditions as applicable to a marriage. Of course not, nobody would.

So if you wouldn't buy a car with those conditions why would you sign a contract for marriage purely because some woman opened her legs and in turn wants the ring and dress but not the duty.

Theonewithoutanumber · 2021-06-02T13:07:53+00:00

If you get married with a prenup its good. Life isnt just about money

IBeMadToo · 2021-06-02T13:09:15+00:00

Not really. You can basically have all the "benefits" of marriage without actually doing it.

You can marry if you want but it is red pill on steroids. You have to constantly "own your shit" (as Married Red Pill calls it) otherwise you're screwed.

tradsouthernmale · 2021-06-02T13:25:26+00:00

If you're a trad-con or religious, then it might be worth considering if you'd like to have children, as most decent women won't be interested in having children while single.

AxP3 · 2021-06-02T14:39:01+00:00

Having kids
More responsibility and commitment - a divorce is harder to walk away from, and more stigmatized than a break up.
Collective celebration grounded in tradition.

As for the divorce rapee testimonials, feel compelled to listen to them only if you're a bitch of a man. If you're masculine and grounded, you will have enough sense to choose the right woman so you won't need to get divorced. Even if you do, she won't divorce rape you because she respects and fears you. Divorce doesn't just happen. Red flags accumulate for years and years, usually from the beginning of the relationship. It's a whole other issue that most men ignore the red flags and in the end blame it all on the woman because it's easier. If my mother legally divorce raped my father, she wouldn't live long enough to spend it. Not that she'd ever consider it.

marcusaureliuswisdom · 2021-06-02T15:22:39+00:00

I’m not ascribing a value judgment on the following. You do what you want, and you analyze your own risks and goals.

But, for what it’s worth, without a legal marriage, you also will be unable to access innumerable state benefits, including tax breaks, the unlimited gift tax exemption, QTIP trust creation, home equity exemptions, increased income exemptions, child tax credits, certain home buyer programs, certain child custody protections, certain asset protections against bankruptcy, certain travel and health-related access to information, and certain social security, insurance, worker’s compensation, cemetery plots, IRA, inheritance, leave, and legal decision-making benefits (such as standing in a wrongful death suit/alienation, power of attorney, after-death examination, visitation and criminal recovery, and spousal privilege).

El_Serpiente_Roja · 2021-06-02T15:41:47+00:00

Best team setup for having/raising kids. It is not ideal necessarily for the individual parents on a singular basis. It depends on a childcentric value system.

Reasonable_2025 · 2021-06-02T19:14:20+00:00

Hahaha… come again! I need to take a sabbatical to carry out an extensive research for that answer.

User36474746 · 2021-06-02T19:41:31+00:00

Kids.

Obviously in today's social climate, I'm choosing to avoid the thought of marriage.

psypD · 2021-06-02T22:00:28+00:00

She has a little lamb.

319Skew · 2021-06-03T01:53:00+00:00

You really hate free time and a saving's account.

gibblesnbits160 · 2021-06-03T04:01:22+00:00

Obviously the bias of this forum is against marriage, and for good reasons. When a marriage works it has many benefits both financial and mental health wise. The issue is the risks often times outway the very real benefits that marriage can offer. It is up to you to vet a potential spouse rigorously and decide for yourself if it is worth it.

skuttt · 2021-06-03T19:54:08+00:00

Married women get hit on less. So if that’s a problem for you, there’s the only benefit.

People in this thread saying: kids: I don’t get. I’m LTR’d and going to kid her up without marriage. It’ll be no different.

drkinferno72 · 2021-06-02T13:06:42+00:00

Taxes

Title	What is a good reason for getting marry?
Author	Awkward-Laugh920
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Comments	94
Date	June 2, 2021 10:46 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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