Hey everyone! I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice and support. I was able to leave NVX safely and have been settling into my new home for the past week.

My guy is a textbook narcissist and he found out about my plan to leave early which was really scary. I even had a dissociative panic attack I was so scared. But I followed your advice and continued with the grey-rocking and didn’t say anything else. I had a friend help me when he was out. I hadn’t even packed a single box prior!

When he come home the next night and saw I was gone he did all the manipulative things HG Tutor warned about - threatening to kill him self, threatening to kill me, blowing up my phone. I hid out and laid low and didn’t give him any fuel. He’s calmed down now and is complaining that I’m “keeping his daughter from him” even though he makes no concrete plans to see her.

I don’t care what he does. I’m not sad even a bit. I see him so clearly now and I’m disgusted. I feel 150 lbs lighter and so happy to have my life back.

Thanks to all you queens for your support!