In my experience, the women who have been kindest to me and offer the most compliments towards me have been women in the upper echelon of attractiveness. They tend to go out of their way to offer praise and words of encouragement. Similarly but to a lesser degree, the most attractive men tend to be kinder.

I have been bullied by women, and these women tend to be women who do not fit the paradigm of attractiveness. They have a tendency to be vulgar, belittling, cruel, and racist towards me. Again, same with the men. I never understood why this was happening since I am an attractive male according to attractive women, until I realized that my bullies were rather nihilistic in their bitterness and jealousy.

This is because unattractive people tend to come to the understanding that they have one shot in life to attain social standing and power, and they are unable to do this as easily as beautiful women can. So instead they become toxic and belittling out of their own insecurity to put down men, (and women), in an attempt to raise their own station in life.