What are some good reasons to stay single as a man?

Elkukuy13 · 2021-07-09T16:57:27+00:00

Single = great mental health, more saved money, peacefulness Don’t be fooled by anything else

c42h70w · 2021-07-09T16:47:17+00:00

You save a lot of money.

Cordero_Biggs · 2021-07-09T15:58:28+00:00

That would depend on your idea of single.

Me personally; I date quite a bit. I know some very lovely women with whom I enjoy spending time with. Some are platonic, some aren't.

I've been married and widowed. After some of the things I've seen over the last 20 years, I'd just as soon join a monastery and donate everything to the church, rather than remarry.

I dont blame all women for how the courts rule on divorce and custody. A very loud minority seem to be the one's that keep it corruptible. The majority of people as a whole - not just women - will take advantage of any opportunity to use the system to their benefit.

It's definitely not right, and creates a morally deficient atmosphere; but in such a litigious society, its going to happen.

I prefer to keep my savings, retirement, home, and investments in my own pocket. I also prefer to have my own place to escape drama and stress. Thats not possible (or at the very least, extremely difficult) if you're living with someone.

That's why I stay single.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-07-09T15:22:36+00:00

Feminism.

Klotzek · 2021-07-09T18:36:17+00:00

You can live a stressfree life without the burden to perform and provide. You can leave whenever you want.

dickle_doot · 2021-07-09T19:39:35+00:00

Your financial situation is a good enough reason to stay single.

FreeSelf-sufficient · 2021-07-09T16:07:34+00:00

If you want anything from a woman no matter how crazy and sexual you only get it when you don't commit. When you do commit you get the bare minimum.

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UnearthlyDinosaur · 2021-07-09T16:44:28+00:00

Divorce

Dead_Art · 2021-07-09T18:49:40+00:00

This is a small one but we enjoy the small things in life right? Being able to eat what I want when I want.

My ex worked in the restaurant industry for so long she'd been eating take out for a decade, where as I have Crohn's and make everything from scratch myself. If I made food, then she wasn't in the mood for that. What was she in the mood for you ask? She doesn't know. So we would proceed to go through every place in towns menu until she settled on chicken nuggets with ranch dressing, or pizza with ranch dressing, or anything you'd find on a childrens menu dipped in ranch fucking dressing.

Meanwhile I have a nice cut of salmon in the fridge that would go great with the bottle of wine I bought as well as some local bread and cheese. I put on like 45 pounds in that relationship, but it's all muscle now so no worries

Blissbynature · 2021-07-09T18:24:56+00:00

It's fun, low stress, and celibacy is great for those who practice it with intent.

ItsYoungzen · 2021-07-09T18:08:12+00:00

Money, freedom , peace

Projectile6002 · 2021-07-09T16:39:11+00:00

Divorce grape

trippingfingers · 2021-07-09T15:51:00+00:00

Because you want to.

MaiMashiro182 · 2021-07-09T15:38:55+00:00

Depends on the context, stay single for marriage saves you a lot of money/headache and gives you freedom, just keep dating girls or have a girlfriend, but do not take them seriously, it's better!

GreenAbbreviations91 · 2021-07-09T15:33:15+00:00

None. MGTOW is a revolt against cultural decay. It's not good for a man to be alone. Not good for the psyche, not good for the body. But, it's not like you'd live forever if you're married. So, we just grit our teeth and accept our lot. Make do with your lot.

Give things a shot though, because you'll never know otherwise. What are the odds you find a unicorn or better yet, a good woman?

MuayThaiYogi · 2021-07-09T23:10:01+00:00

Peace above all things Avoid hypocrisy...

rb5775 · 2021-07-09T21:58:25+00:00

Money. Self Esteem.

manfrom-nantucket · 2021-07-10T02:17:53+00:00

Freedom and the ability to live your life with no compromises. In any relationship it requires compromise from both people in the relationship. Which means your weekends are no longer your own. She wants to go to the mall or brunch with her friends and you want to stay home. Guess what, to keep the peace you are going to the mall or brunch with her friends. Look at any married couple or couple in a ltr, it's the man sacrificing his downtime for some bullshit the woman wants to do. You are also now tied to a job because you need to provide for her. Women want shit that you don't even need because she is competing with her friends. All of a sudden your apartment is no longer good enough. Got to move to the suburbs and buy a giant home that now comes with a 30 year mortgage. etc etc.

Instead stay single, live your life on your terms. Do what you want with your time and no comrpromises.

Hy3w_mong0u5 · 2021-07-10T10:09:38+00:00

You don't have some entitled, narcissistic witch expecting you to reduce your entire identity to nothing more than paying her way through life for her in return for false promises of sex.

Relationships for men these days = setting yourself on fire to keep others warm.

he_retic · 2021-07-09T22:09:03+00:00

More money and less drama

randomroxks · 2021-07-09T22:06:59+00:00

God, guns, property and motorcycle

cedarbirchpine · 2021-07-10T10:42:33+00:00

Buy all the toys you want, enjoy all the toys you buy. Do want you like to do and do it when you want to.

sootlord · 2021-07-10T12:25:28+00:00

Not having to risk losing your assets or have to deal with a false acussation

Gloomy_Rooster3330 · 2021-07-10T11:24:46+00:00

Keep more money, stress free, no child support or custody battles, no heartbreak, not splitting of assets a couple of years before retirement.

SonofdeSun · 2021-07-09T19:12:26+00:00

https://youtu.be/BmW5jeYDaq4

4 good reasons right there if I say so myself.

Yasai101 · 2021-07-09T17:25:31+00:00

Think of a reason, any reason and thats a good enough reason to stay single.

Ottofetting · 2021-07-10T06:25:38+00:00

Women

BlackmesaTBX · 2021-07-10T15:33:24+00:00

I pulled up to a bar last night solo for some ribs and a few beers, watch a game. Place was packed so another younger solo dude pulled up, order his drink and was sighing heavily. He engaged me to ask how the ribs were (they were amazing) - and proceeded to complain about how his girlfriend doesn’t let him eat food like that, doesn’t like when he goes to the bar afterwork, hates his truck, etc. His girls blowing up his phone at the bar. He asked what he should do and told him I lost everything divorcing a maniac, and I’ve never felt so rich with freedom. I asked point blank what will the future deathbed version of himself think about this moment? He was like yeah, you’re right. It was a question, not advice.

derryroadfenian · 2021-07-10T03:36:13+00:00

I would like to know on why being single is always seen as something negative, as I have always been single my whole life

orangejeep02 · 2021-07-10T03:36:18+00:00

Not that I'm trying to add publicity for the guy, though I do support a fellow brother. Watch MGTOW monk hammer hand he helped me a lot

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Timely_Yoghurt8411 · 2021-07-10T00:06:10+00:00

Any and every reason is good enough

felixforgarus · 2021-07-10T00:34:34+00:00

I don't think its about staying single forever or hating women, but spending anywhere from 1 to 10 years establishing yourself financially so that you live as peaceful and simple a life as possible in order to maximize your satisfaction as much as possible in life is a good reason to stay single.

Its also about the idea that in your 20s you're less inclined to make an informed decision unless you're listening to your elders and writing things down. If you're one of those kids that's a know it all that doesn't need to listen to anybody chances are in this society especially with how screwed up the wests culture has become you're gonna end up in a bad situation at one point or another.

CuriousIncel2 · 2021-07-09T16:21:31+00:00

None.

The way I see it, the choice is not between a good alternative and bad ones. It's a choice between a bad alternative and worse ones.

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KlausBerlin · 2021-07-10T07:43:49+00:00

The best reason are women.

Dunkman83 · 2021-07-10T04:15:54+00:00

money

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money

malerevolution · 2021-07-11T16:08:41+00:00

FREEDOM

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DeckardB25654 · 2021-07-10T09:01:33+00:00

The tik rok IRS meme

NukaColaCorporation · 2021-07-09T23:04:12+00:00

There are non. You could mention many things like money, divorce, tranquility, or anything else but all that means nothing when compared to regular sexual access. You don’t have that with anyone, not even a FWB because eventually they grow out of that phase or find a man. If you think prostitutes are the proper response to my point then you’ll be spending money that you wish to save by being single. Let’s not forget STDs. With a regular partner you don’t run that risk vs that girl you met off tinder or the girl that charges you.

There is no good reason to stay single. That being said, find the RIGHT girl gentleman.

What are some good reasons to stay single as a man?

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Title	What are some good reasons to stay single as a man?
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Date	July 9, 2021 3:21 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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