Hi. I’m a women, married 7 years but together 10, wanting perspective. I’ve been a stay at home mom & my husband has supported us financially. I have very little income potential. I want 50/50 custody, and to completely opt out of FOC & child support. I also want Half of the assets, after debts of course, we’ve accrued during our 7 year marriage. I only want half of what we’ve gained during our marriage from our home equity and his pension. I don’t want any furniture or items or possessions. I don’t want a cent of his pension accrued before we were married, and I want half of the equity in our home after debts are subtracted. We got the house together, the mortgage is in his name but the deed has both names. I don’t want the house. Just give me half of our assets, I’ll sign off on the house and I’ll go. We can work out parenting outside of court, I’m very flexible. Willing to waive child support to help facilitate good co parenting. He thinks I don’t deserve anything. He thinks his income is his alone even though I’ve supported his career by doing all the childcare, cleaning, yard work; everything at home. But he doesn’t see it that way. He thinks he pays the bills and he’s doing me a favor. He thinks I should have no right to any part of his pension or the house. I think I want what’s more than fair and best for Everyone including him. I don’t want him to waste money on a lawyer. I don’t want to fight. But I won’t leave with nothing and be on the street. I’ve worked extremely hard for my family and I deserve more than nothing even if he doesn’t think so. I truly want to know if Men think the stay at home parent deserves nothing become he paid the bills. Thanks 🙏