If a woman stops having sex with a man, he is metaphorically screwed.

fiat_lux_ · 2013-12-05T19:25:41+00:00

So issuing his woman an ultimatum - saying this is not what he signed up for - was wrong for Blue Pillers.

I guess the only acceptable answer for them would be for him to ~~continuously beg for sex~~ have more earnest heartfelt conversations about his needs with her...

Resulting in ~~him not ever getting any sex~~ her really trying to understand his point of view, but ultimately him just not understanding her...

~~Have her eventually lose total respect for him~~ See them eventually and unfortunately grow apart...

~~Her dump him after she gets bored with the relationship~~ Sadly see them separate...

~~Have him write her a check every month for 16+ years~~ See him follow through with his responsibilities as a father...

Have her ~~jump back on the cock carousel~~ seek out a more meaningful relationship and find her true love with someone else...

Archwinger · 2013-12-05T19:29:44+00:00

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jmikolash · 2013-12-05T20:21:35+00:00

The basic mistake is asking these retards for relationship advice in the first place. All these subreddits are a joke, populated by mediocre minds, regurgitating knee jerk reactions to shit they have no business giving advice about. It sickens me to think that if I didn't find this sub I might have been nodding along right next to these mindless bobble heads.

MockingDead · 2013-12-05T19:47:50+00:00

Women are an inherently no win situation.

option 1) You do as she wants, become the person she wants you to be, she'll lose respect for you (and attraction with it) because you let her change you.

option 2) You don't do as she wants, she'll endlessly try to break your stoicism, your resistance will fuel her attraction. Her image-conscious mind will push her to protest and seem unhappy, her subcounscious will keep her wanting you nonetheless.

Ever wonder why angry sex is always better ?

Archwinger · 2013-12-05T19:24:14+00:00

You don't seriously need us to spell it out for you, do you?

In both scenarios, the guy expected to have sex. In the eyes of a feminist, bluepiller, or similar individual, expecting that your wife or girlfriend will have sex with you is treating her like an object. It's using her. It's disrespecting her.

You're supposed to love your girl as a person, and only as a person, and just be overjoyed to be next to her and have her company. You are never supposed to expect sex from her. You can ask. You can even try to initiate. But if she says no, you're pushing it if you even think to ask why she's rejecting your advances. Her sexual history, her sexual drive, her reasons for wanting or not wanting sex with you, or with other people, are all her business. Not yours.

Sex is as normal a part of a relationship as SHE chooses to make it. Not you. Your job is to do whatever it takes to keep her happy, and if you do a good enough job, she'll have sex with you once in awhile. If you undertake any kind of behavior -- even self-improvement -- with the hope or intent of improving your sex life, that is vile manipulation.

Terry_Bruce_Dick · 2013-12-06T02:04:58+00:00

Blowjobs are the canary in the cole mine. When they stop, it's time to leave. I tell girls this as much up front. If I have to ask you for one, then you're already on the 'next' list.

hunterkeeper · 2013-12-05T18:58:09+00:00

to blue pillians, no man should have sex. its the woman's choice to have sex, regardless of what the man wants.

haha this is so ridiculous, that its funny

Stayinghereforreal · 2013-12-05T20:22:03+00:00

I have not read the blue pill area stuff before. Fascinating. Reading their thoughts on and summaries of TRP thinking, you realize what competent musicians must feel when utterly tone deaf people arrogantly critique music and performance quality.

The most revealing comment was one that said "I refuse to believe that anyone in the red pill has ever interacted with a women long enough to have a conversation"

Matrix Morpheus Moment: What if I told you that I had many spectacular personal relationships with female friends, family members, co-workers, lovers, etc. during a full lifetime, and I think TRP has some valid insights?

2013-12-05T21:26:35+00:00

They're pissed because they realize that the women don't hold the power in the relationship anymore. Dread game. Women hate when it gets used on them.

dauntlessmax · 2013-12-05T20:31:15+00:00

I really hate some of the shit that's discussed on here. Humans, both males and females are sexual creatures. Is it really a crime to look for sex if you're deprived of it? If you want to play the good guy and not look for sex because it's morally right, you're only doing yourself a disservice.

_MrMan_ · 2013-12-05T19:22:23+00:00

You can't please everybody, but you can please yourself.

ajswdf · 2013-12-05T19:46:54+00:00

/u/xLadyVirgil makes some good points in that second thread, basically arguing that sex is a duty in a monogomous relationship.

Really the second story is the least objectionable thing I've read on here. I bet if you showed that story to them in a vacuum they'd be fine with his actions, but because it's on TRP they're automaticaly against it.

Mr_Andry · 2013-12-05T21:40:49+00:00

I'm not gonna say that either of those crowd reactions are correct, but both men reacted poorly.

The correct response is to hit the gym, clean up the diet, start flirting more (both with the woman in the story and other women), and responding properly to various shit tests (shutting them down instead of putting up with them).

As part of the unplugged community, we are not obligated to share the proper steps of kindling attraction, but we should at least recognize when they're missing.

A woman is never, ever obligated to have sex. Neither is a man. Instead, we take control of our own behavior so that our desired partners will desire us in return.

2013-12-05T23:36:27+00:00

Do they not realize their hypocrisy?

They've trained themselves not to.

General_Fear · 2013-12-06T00:46:06+00:00

When have the pussy. They make the rules. That's how the blue pill world thinks. According to the Blue pill world. It's a woman's world. Men just live in it.

jagrmeister721 · 2013-12-06T02:07:40+00:00

Monogamy depends on a degree of, yes, I'll say it - virtue - from both sides. In the modern era, women have chosen a very opportunistic path where they use availability of sex as a weapon. That's not an acceptable tactic within the framework of monogamy. Feminism may claim to pursue equality but it is simply based on one notion, "Female wants matter. Male needs don't matter". Men aren't discovering red pill; they're having it shoved down their throats by ridiculously selfish female behavior everywhere they go.

redpilldude · 2013-12-06T02:41:06+00:00

/thebluepill isn't intelligent enough to understand the definition of hypocrisy.

redpillhead · 2013-12-06T03:56:33+00:00

Credit where credit is due. At least one of the BPers was able to look at the situation from a rational perspective.

How am I not entitled to sex and physical intimacy from my WIFE. Not a random person on the street but the person who promised to be committed to you and you alone, and that you gave the same promise to.

2013-12-05T21:27:31+00:00

Woman won't have sex with man, man cheats, man is a dick. If the woman cheats it's "go sister soul sister" and trivial justifications like "well, the man should have been taking care of his woman".

Stay single.

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2013-12-06T05:23:44+00:00

I was talking about this just recently. Here's my take on it:

http://redditlog.com/snapshot/29716/36391

I was responding to someone in that thread, but most of it applies here too.

ProudHoney · 2013-12-06T16:49:46+00:00

A man does whatever he wants to do.

PoopSmearMoustache · 2013-12-06T03:54:58+00:00

Understanding attraction and values in a relationship destroys the symbolism of love being a part of nature which clashes with the values of this monogamous society.

Men, however rightly or wrongly, make the connection that the reward for believing in female loyalty (love) is sex.

Woman, the mysterious creature she is, understands that their attraction (love) is very conditional, so prefer men don't understanding it as it can only be used to disqualify her from a deserved life of pleasure that doesn't have to involve anything she doesn't want.

2013-12-06T10:11:05+00:00

The real question is why did the guy in Scenario 2 wait so long to just flat out say he needed some sex? TBH sounds like a pussy talking about all the "sappy conversations" he had with her

JohnPeel · 2013-12-05T21:05:05+00:00

It takes a certain kind of person to ever think it's a good idea to ask for advice about a broken relationship on the internet.

It's literally like taking your already damaged and bent man card and then ripping it into pieces.

Title	If a woman stops having sex with a man, he is metaphorically screwed.
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Date	December 5, 2013 6:48 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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