TL/DR:

I was involved with guy for 6 months. Found out he was a two-timing cheater with a long-term girlfriend in another city. I confronted him and then told the girlfriend. He told the girlfriend and posted on Facebook that I was a stalker who had called him hundreds of times, showed up at his house unannounced and contacted his family. He also claimed he was meeting with the school deal with is “alleged stalker.” He kept his word and made a false allegation against me. The school started a Title IX investigation.

The school immediately believed his story even before they spoke to me. The investigator wouldn’t let me tell my side of the story, and actually told me she wasn’t interested in hearing my story. She then proceeded to write only his side of his story and use certain words to make it seem like I had conceded to it. “Crystal admits she contacted his girlfriend.” She was not there to be a neutral, impartial investigator, but was only calling to corroborate his story. She also refused to follow up on my list of witnesses. Remember the investigator is also the judge and jury in these Title IX proceedings.

I hired a lawyer to help me. I ended up being able to tell my side of the story in the investigatory report. Bobby ended up chickening out and dropped the case.

It was a terrible experience, but seeing how the school immediately believed my accuser and tried to limit my ability to defend myself, made me see how Title IX was truly designed to railroad the accuse, 99% of men being the accused.

EDIT:

Thank you to everyone who gave encouraging responses to my story. But after much thought, I have decided to remove the long version of the post post. Particularly, because of the level of negativity I have received in the last 22 hours.

First, I was trolled by a Pro-Title IX female who falsely claimed my story was copy and pasted from another reddit story. Ms. Pro-Title IX later stated the point of her claiming my story was copied was to show me what it is like to not have somebody not believe me, like women are not believed when they make allegations against men. My story is 100% original, you can copy/paste in google, you won’t find anything. Also, there aren't many accused women in Title IX proceedings.

Second, my motives were questioned and I was accused of “wanting to post a story about myself for attention” rather than truly advocating men’s issues .

I was accused of being an undercover feminist "making up a feminist fantasy story”. (Yes LOL)

I received hateful responses from individuals who called me a “crazy cunt” and told me I deserved to be falsely accused for outing my two-timing ex to his girlfriend.

I received comments from other men on this sub, reprimanding me for advocating due process issues. Apparently, they hate the idea of fair trials and due process for men.

I never thought trying to advocate an issue would lead to so much drama and negativity. For some reason or another, I am either bullied or punished for sympathizing with men’s issues. It sucks when you truly want to advocate an issue for the thousands of men who go through Title IX cases yearly.

So I have decided to follow the advice of others and place the full text on another subreddit. I am still campaigning to make reforms in Title IX. I hope to continue to share my story through meaningful outlets and hope it will serve as a catalyst for change in the system.

Thank you to those who shared positive words and I hope you can join the movement for due process too.

Feel free to DM me for questions, and convos regarding my story.

Krazyforlove