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The excuses men (and pick me women) make in order to justify covert infidelity and female objectification.

Ahyoooo

August 11, 2021
129 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
https://dearwendy.com/his-take-do-all-guys-go-to-strip-clubs/
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Title The excuses men (and pick me women) make in order to justify covert infidelity and female objectification.
Author

Ahyoooo

Upvotes 129
Comments 17
Date August 11, 2021 2:43 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p248dm/the_excuses_men_and_pick_me_women_make_in_order/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/the-excuses-men-and-pick-me-women-make-in-order-to.958940
https://theredarchive.com/post/958940
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Comments

[–]gutsandgoreyFDS Apprentice 137 points138 points139 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

What do these men have against Lady GaGa?

Also I have to ask, what is the female equivalent of going to a strip club? Something that women do that borders on cheating but guys are gaslit into accepting it. I can't think of anything...

[–]PainfulmenstruationFDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It doesn’t border on cheating, it IS cheating.

[–]_RustInPiece_FDS Disciple 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What do these men have against Lady GaGa?

Homophobia. But what do you expect from people who blame the woman for finding out she got cheated on by her bf?

[–]FrenchHeelFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Having lunch with attractive and intelligent men. “Honey, I’m just going for the intellectual conversation! It’s not like I’m having sex with them.”

[–]dulcinea87FDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even better: a handsome coworker who wants to treat you to lunch because he is generous and a gentleman. It actually doesn't matter if he's a coworker. Even if it's a male relative, lvm will still feel annoyed and offended if another man treats you better than he does.

[–]MissouriBlueFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Going to the Lace-Making Museum: we love to look at it, but it’s nothing like what we have in Real Life?

It’s just lace… honest. I’m not going to buy any. Or take it up as a hobby.

😳

[–]MuffcakelordFDS Disciple 86 points87 points88 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"But in 2011, a lap dance is about as intimate as a flossing one’s teeth"

Ok so men are obviously proud of being slutty. So when are they going to stop slutshaming? Kind of not relevant to the article but it's insane how much men use promiscuity as the excuse to say women just overeact to infidelity, yet they hate promiscious women.

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, sis. Yes! It's a classic patriarchal reversal.

[–]Professional-Ad-457FDS Newbie 77 points78 points79 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Have you noticed how angry (a controlled anger that tries to appear logical) guys get when they’re defending strip clubs? Very emotional. It’s because they know deep down it’s wrong and they are gaslighting themselves it is acceptable to go. The cognitive dissonance upsets them.

[–]throwaway88043468FDS Newbie 71 points72 points73 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I've spoken to a surprising amount of men who claim to be ashamed of going to the strip club. Saying it was dirty and weird and the strippers fake-flirting with them was sad. Like yeah buddy, literally what the hell did you expect? Of course it's not very glamorous when you realize the strippers hate you and they're only smiling so you'll pay them. Ironically they can feel badly for being 'reduced to an ATM' by a stripper but they have no qualms with reducing those exact women to their bodies.

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 51 points52 points53 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh God, an ATM. With their fucking one dollar bills. Wow. Human degradation is so cheap for men.

[–]K0rlaFDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck you Mark

[–]PainfulmenstruationFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Throw all those men out.

[–]_RustInPiece_FDS Disciple 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No, you are weirder for listening to a 6 minute voice message your bf sent to your mailbox.

Like, for real?

[–]MilkMadeMeFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I had to stop reading after that. Now that I think about it, I can’t recall a single “men’s advice” column I’ve read that expresses genuine empathy. All off them put forth a freaking takedown to establish credibility. Shocker. 🙄

[–]wrice05FDS Apprentice 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Every now and then I read an FDS post that triggers what I call "Ultimate Disappointment" in me. Reading all these LVM being LVM in technicolor in so many different ways took me right there.

[–]annedr3wwFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What was really disappointing??? Oh man did you see the comments section. The comments by all the pickmewomen 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Jena was the only one making sense and she was getting lambasted by women🤦🏻‍♀️

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