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i feel like trying less and going outside less lowered men's success nowadays

October 13, 2022

Ironically without the ''blackpill' ' a short guy would try to approach a high number of girls until he finally got someone, nowadays after a few failures guys read ' 'blackpill statistics' ' and stop trying to approach and LDAR

Exeggrated example but if you approach 10000 girls instead of 10 you would have more chance.

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Title i feel like trying less and going outside less lowered men's success nowadays
Author kokorwqac
Upvotes 0
Comments 31
Date October 13, 2022 7:26 AM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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[–]SilentFroggy 6 points7 points  (25 children) | Copy Link

It makes us feel worthless when there’s men out there who can pull women with little to no effort.

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

That's about your self esteem and based on hyper focusing on the minority not the majority. If you focus on the negative then you won't achieve the positive.

[–]SilentFroggy 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s more about accepting. Not all of us can accept the beta lifestyle

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Accepting what?! Everything in life is contingent on your efforts. Although there can be outside forces at play. That doesn't negate the fact that you have to actively participate. If you choose to opt out that's on you. But you don't get to complain about it. You also need to own the fact you're making the decision out of fear and likely low self esteem. Not because it's what you truly would like.

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below -4 points-3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That's defeatist. Change your mindset.

Use each rejection as research. Approach women with the full expectation that you are going to be rejected, and that you are going to forensically examine that rejection in the cold light of day to see what you can do to make subsequent rejections less likely.

Each rejection you get is a lesson in how to avoid getting rejected next time. Learn it. In due course you will be a way, way better man than Chad, who had pussy available with no effort.

Earn more money. Gain in status. Go to the gym. Practice talking to people. Turn yourself in to something that a hypergamous woman would want.l

Take the Red Pill.

[–]SilentFroggy 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Already working on status/money/gym. Not doing it for women and hopefully never.

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good lad. That is the correct attitude.

Keep working - make it habitual.

It might take a few years, but you will see the fruits of your labour, and women will be just one of them.

[–]Pissrael_2 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It also feeds women's ego we try to get them, I'm not doing that anymore.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

the question is, 10000 girls: is it worth it? three a day, (that's an unrealistic pace to keep up) and that's easily nine years of your life and two months. what else can you do in that time? are they even worth it after they accept dating you?

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

So you'd prefer to not try, whinge online and get nothing than to put the effort in to attracting women and possibly get something significant? The trick is to not focus on it as your sole endeavour but to supplement your life. Find happiness in other areas and put effort in.

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Couldn't agree more.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

i did try im just not going to do it 10000 times like op says

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's still your choice. If you decide to not continue the effort you can't complain if you don't get any outcomes

[–]kokorwqac[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you dedicate your life to whşnşng about blackpill then it means it's probably big enough problem for them to whine about

[–]debatelord_1 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah people go out way less than older generations. I expected university to be wild with tons of partys, drugs, alcohol and people hooking up.

Instead many people don't drink at all, it's mostly fairly boring LTRs or perma singles and bars are so fucking expensive

[–]RedditsOlderBrah -5 points-4 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

i agree, blackpill is a moon logic worldview for the mentally unwell.

i don't agree that we should huddle around and wonder about why they aren't fucking.

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy Link

...because a few of them end up picking up guns?

We had one here in the UK - in Plymouth - triggered by a rejection here on Reddit. Autistic lad who thought he had no chance of getting any poon, ever. Killed his mum and a few other people.

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

no. because they are severely mentally unwell. there are 9 different types of hopelessness as classified by psychiatrists. if yo identify with a few, you might need therapy. black pill rejects are guilty of all 9, at the same times, and every single one of the associated behaviours. all i need is a black pill volunteer and i can effortlessly prove it.


[–]De_Carabas_of_Below -1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

...and you don't think they became severely mentally unwell due to constant rejection from females, and becoming convinced thereby that they were worthless?

Keep pushing kiddo, you'll get there...

[–]RedditsOlderBrah 1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

all from the article i gave you perfectly making fun of your attempt at a post

Jumping to conclusions: arriving at any conclusion based on limited or no evidence

Catastrophizing: magnifying the relevance of an event or believing in the worst possible outcome of a given situation

Control fallacies: believing you either have no control or all control over what happens to you and others

[–]_Duriel_1000_ 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link


[–]kokorwqac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lay down and rot

[–]Pilling_it 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Everyone got shitty social skills nowadays. And yes, women becoming more awkward also impact men's success.

As for a man, well. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Whether it's worth taking is up to the individual.

[–]kokorwqac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

i mean i don't care if a guy decides it's not worth it and stays a virgin, it's just that those people spend their lives whining about this, then also just LDAR when you tell them to work hard.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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