The men that women complain about harrassing them and approaching them and doing much worse to them aren't blackpilled men. Any man that bothers to approach a woman isn't blackpilled. Those men are bluepillers and redpillers.

`The bluepill tricks men into thinking that if a woman looks at him and doesn't immediately find him attractive, he just need to go to enough therapy, volunteer at enough soup kitchens, read enough books about feminism and the patriarchy, shower her with enough attention, kindness, jokes, compliments, and gifts, and eventually she'll develop an attraction for him. However, from the woman's perspective, all of these efforts appear as creepy, annoying, and stalker-ish behaviour that will never develop any attraction. The only feelings that will develop as a result of this bluepill behaviour will be a hatred for that man and a broader hatred for men in general.

The redpill tricks men into thinking that if a woman looks at him and doesn't immediately find him attractive, he just need to get a better job, get a more expensive car, make more money, work out in the gym more, show off your muscles more, act more aggressive, act more dominant, approach as many women as possible, show your dominance by percieving a no as a yes, never giving up, negging women, playing pick-up mind games, using shitty pickup lines, etc. and eventually she'll develop an attraction to him. But again, from the perspective of the woman, all of these effort appear as creepy and threatening behaviour. Especially the stuff about behaving aggressive and dominant will terrify the woman, and the pickup line mindgames will disgust her. The only feelings that will develop as a result of this redpill behaviour will be a hatred for that man and a broader hatred for men in general.

Now there's the blackpill. True and honest blackpill men know that if a woman doesn't immediately find him attractive then there's no winning her over - regardless of how he behaves or how much he self-improves she'll never change her mind. In fact, honest blackpillers would never even approach a woman. Women are very confident in and willing to approach men who they find attractive. Women know they can get any man they want. If she's not approached you, it's because she doesn'tw want you. Blackpillers know that approaching women is therefore pointless. Blackpilled men don't bother women. Ugly blackpilled men stay indoors, rot in their bedrooms, and doomscroll + doompost on obscure forums in order to pass the time until they die. Attractive blackpilled men however patiently wait for women to inevitably approach them and then live happily ever after with them.

The blackpill helps everyone. It helps men accept their fate. And it helps women not be harrassed by ugly men, allowing them to only interact with the men of their dreams.

EDIT: For the bluepillers trying to argue that harrassing women is ok: why don't you just listen to what women say?