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Why dick game is important in relationship

September 2, 2022
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A new article is making it's rounds in the Redpill community. You may have already stumble across it.

https://nypost.com/2022/08/23/women-are-more-likely-to-cheat-than-men-heres-why/

This article dispels the notion that men are the hornier sex. Woman's libido are equal or greater than men.

I believe this to be true, because evolutionarily, women wouldn't want to have babies if the sex itself wasn't stimulating. All our female ancestors that didn't have a strong libido probably didn't have many kids, because child birth was risky and painful. All our females ancestors that did have kids, probably felt the pain was worth it because the sex felt so good.

It's not politically correct to say this, but dick game is very important. This is another reason why men don't like women with high body counts. Because their dick game will be compared to the dick game of other men!

EDIT: If anyone doubts that women have higher libido than men, our good friend /u/catniagara made a compelling argument as to why woman are sexually superior to men:

Given the average time most people spend having sex is around 5.4 minutes (the poor souls) and it takes the average man 30+ minutes to get his dick back up, we can have sex with 5-6 men, on average, in the time it takes the first one to run his flag back up the pole.

Men can orgasm once every half hour to an hour. Women can orgasm 20+ times in the same time frame. Not that most men know that. Their poor spouses.

Men fall into a lame sex coma while womens stamina only increases after sex, so much so that some Asian cultures believe that women actually steal mens life force during sex…

Where men have the more active role. Because they’re thrusting.

Also also, women reach our hormonal sexual peak later than men, in our thirties as opposed to mens twenties. And mens ability to maintain or start up an erection decreases over time, whereas women don’t typically show a noticeable lack of lubrication until our fifties or so, usually around menopause. The skin inside the vagina doesn’t thin out until our mid or late sixties.

In terms of biology, women are sexually superior. Certain men’s desire to prove themselves “young” and “virile” probably has more to do with their own psychosocial fear of aging than any biological need.

They don’t typically even desire the women they pursue. They just feel a need to prove to themselves that they can “get” women. Sometimes it becomes so pathetic that they go after ridiculously younger women just to convince the world that they can still throw down without breaking a hip.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/wycdqu/comment/ilyht3i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

EDIT2: https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare

The notion that woman have a lower sex drive is outdated. I think most men in relationships know this to be true. Men and women sex drives are very similar. Women like to under-report their sex drive, while men like to over report. But when hooked up to a lie detector, men and women report similar levels of sex drive.

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Title Why dick game is important in relationship
Author Hodgekin
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Date September 2, 2022 6:46 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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[–]tired_hillbilly 7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

All our females ancestors that did have kids, probably felt the pain was worth it because the sex felt so good.

OR because it was the only real way to get fed. 99% of people since the invention of agriculture were directly reliant on backbreaking labor to acquire food. Even after the domestication of draft animals; you have to be shredded to steer a plow.

Guys make the vast majority of food, and guys want sex/kids. Simple exchange.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Can we go back even further in time, maybe when we just branched off from our closest chimp relative? Agriculture is 10,000 year old. Our human history dates back 200,000 years.

[–]tired_hillbilly 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Ok, how many ladies do you think were out there hunting woolly mammoths?

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't see how this is exclusionary. Woman can have multiple reasons for mating. A higher libido can be one of them. Acquiring access to resources can be another.

When I say think way back when we just branched off from our closest ancestors, you ignore that. You went directly before the agricultural revolution to the hunter gatherer society.

This feature for increase libido could have evolved 200,000 years ago, before we even found fire. I had to do a google search to see how old humans can possibly be. Apparently our oldest human ancestor is 4.2 millions years old.

Are you arguing that women don't have higher libido than men?

[–]decoy88A Black Dude♂️ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Speculation: Probably none. But I imagine the ones that ran away from sex altogether likely died off. Without shelter/food. So to be a woman with ANY amount of libido was a benefit. Higher libido women might have been less likely to run from sex, don’t run from sex, survive.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know where to start with this, so I’ll summarise with three words.

Inaccurate Misandrist Horseshit.

Women do NOT have the same sex drive as men. Full stop. Why?

Because testosterone has a pivotal role in the libido of both sexes.

Female bodybuilders that inject the stuff typically report a “thousand percent” increase in libido.

Therefore the central premise of OP’s comment is false.

[–]BumblingBeta 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah that comment about male and female sex drive being equal is utter horseshit. But the title of the OP is correct, that men need to be good in bed and make a woman cum.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t disagree with that. Just the underlying logic.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough.

It was the conventional theists that men have higher libido.

So one of the studies done was to determine a person libido. They had three different methods.

  1. your response will be looked at
  2. you're hooked up to a lie detector and the researchers will know if you're lying
  3. You're response will not be looked at

They found with the 1st method, men over reported their libido. Women under reported.

With method 2 and 3, they found that women and men libido were similar (men slightly higher).

Because testosterone has a pivotal role in the libido of both sexes.

Female bodybuilders that inject the stuff typically report a “thousand percent” increase in libido.

I don't discount this. How certain are we that the female and male base line libido are similar without testosterone therapy? Testosterone will help no doubt.

This is anecdotal but my wife has a higher libido than me. I'm 9 years older. I doubt testosterone is the only factor that contributes to libido.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I think different factors govern it in the two sexes. Testosterone is a major factor but so are others. Female ovulation is a major factor as well.

Plus: people can quote studies all they like. Head over to r/deadbedrooms and see who’s complaining about what.

Edit: fat fingers

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

That's fine. I already know about men in dead bedroom.

The researcher showed that women are more inclined for various sexual experience. Men seem more satisfied with the same experience.

How much would that factor into the discussion?

Maybe men with dead bedroom have poor dick game, and they wouldn't admit it as it would bruise their ego?

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

That would be only part of it. Women use access to sex as a means of control.

[–]Holiday-Reach-8948 2 points3 points  (36 children) | Copy Link

So women have higher libidos, but shouldn’t have have N counts… 🤔🤔

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] -3 points-2 points  (35 children) | Copy Link

I dont see why it would be confusing if you read my full post. A women who had a really good dick will remember that guy for the rest of her life. And will compare her future partners to that good dick.

For the most part, all women's vaginas are the same.

As for men, dick size can vary a great deal, and there is a preferred size.

Women will cheat on men if they aren't satisfied sexually. And part of the unsatisfied feeling comes from experiencing many dicks. That's what the article pointed out. It dispels the myth that women cheat emotionally.

This is why men fear women who had many dicks in her past. Monogamy is easier when a women has a low n count, because it's more likely she'll be satisfied with the dick she has.

[–]rurunoa 1 point2 points  (18 children) | Copy Link

lol what if a woman gave head to 100 men or received oral from them or got fingered, im sure men wouldn’t find it much different than her actually getting penetrated by 100 penises

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 1 point2 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

You're not being honest. I know for a fact, women have a preference for dick size. Stop acting like a women will treat all dick the same.

[–]rurunoa 0 points1 point  (12 children) | Copy Link

im talking about why men fear women who have had many dicks in the past. even if it wasn’t technically having dicks she would still be considered a slut by them nonetheless

[–]Holiday-Reach-8948 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Here’s one example of the BS you asked me about. Not all women prefer dick.

[–]Holiday-Reach-8948 0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

Oh, I’m not confused, I just think much of this is BS.

For the record, women AND men will cheat if they aren’t sexually satisfied MOST of the time (not all the time; particularly if married).

I feel part of the problem is it seems men have higher libidos early in (typically) and women have higher libidos later in life (typically).

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy Link

Can you specify what is BS?

[–]Holiday-Reach-8948 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

I see a lot of women are x and men are z. Libido fluctuates throughout a persons life for one thing. Life or kids or career or health stuff happens.

It’s BS to put people into black or white buckets. People are more complex than that.

I do agree with you in that women can have multiple reasons fir mating, but so can men.

[–]Holiday-Reach-8948 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

“Women will cheat on men if they aren’t satisfied sexually. And part of the unsatisfied feeling comes from experiencing many dicks.” <—- who told you that?!

As a woman I can tell you what I like and how I like it - not because I’ve had “many dicks” (I have a very low N count TBH) but because Im really good at telling my husband “do it like that”.

And let me tell you, men and women a like cheat for MANY reasons. From what I can tell, it’s not because of the quality of sex, it’s because the quantity.

If you’re not having great sex, that’s fixable - A LOT easier to fix than a low libido or an affair!

I feel like if women are not having great sex with their partner, they’re more likely to incorporate a toy or talk about it before just moving on to another dick and starting all over again.

I think women who have very high N numbers, it’s not because the previous dick was not as good - there’s something else going on there - maybe they’re in collage and just want to have variety. Maybe they worry if they don’t have a lot of experience, then their serious partner or SO won’t think they’re good enough (at sex), maybe they are addicted to sex, maybe they are being pimped out…. Etc. etc. etc. Maybe they are just being human.

If you’re with someone and your really happy in every way, but then find out their N number is high so you don’t want them anymore, then that’s on you. And thats the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. And I hear it a lot on here.

We need to evolve and grow from this double standard and notion that women who have high N numbers are trash or broken while men with high N numbers are not. If you’re with a women who has a high N number and she’s happy with you, quit worrying about whether or not she’s been with a bigger dick or not!

I CAN NOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH: BIG DICK DOES NOT EQUAL GREAT OR BEST DICK!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel like all this comes naturally when two people are attracted to each other.

[–]kokorwqac 1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

In almost all countries stats i looked into, men cheat more, the only exception was india(where marriages are arranged a lot of the time)

Women do cheat but men should stop inserting their paranoia like they are angels

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

This isn't an argument on how frequent people cheat. It's an argument about why.

Do women not have strong libido? Do they not want sex as much as men?

[–]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

They don't have it as strong as men but they have it,

But libido or animalistic instincts isn't the only reason people have sex or sexuality, a lot of it is mental, a lot of rapists and pedos don't even get hard for example, also the title is ''why women cheat more' ' which is untrue in most countries.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

''why women cheat more' ' which is untrue in most countries.

That's fair. I never intended to argue this point. I'm mostly interested in the reasons for infidelity.

Here's a quote from the article:

“The women studied went on the site, created a profile, vetted candidates, met them in person and ‘auditioned’ them. This was a very intentional process. They wanted to find partners for sex. They reported being in sexless or orgasm-less marriages and they simply wanted what they couldn’t get at home. But most were otherwise happily partnered or married, and these affairs were a way for them to remain in their primary relationships. So, there goes the myth that women who cheat are unhappily married.”

It's a trope at this point in the manosphere. A man provides the perfect marriage for his wife. He's kind, generous, works hard, provides, but the wife still steps out on him. The emotional argument does not apply. In this scenario, it would make sense that the reason for the infidelity would be a lack of sexual satisfaction.

[–]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

sure, but a lot of those tropes seem like ''well duh'' wouldn't you do the same? thing, like water is wet kinda deal

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I understand those points. But what do you think her motives would be personally to seek out sex? If it's in excess, it must be because she finds it pleasurable to do so? She's not seeking any financial gains nor is she seeking a child or a relationship.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

This is weird post

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy Link

It's not conventional to discuss. Most people like to be private about the sexual experience. I think stable relationships also require the ability to pleasure both parties. A man should have good dick game if he wants to be desirable.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I mean,things you said

All our female ancestors that didn't have a strong libido probably didn't have many kids, because child birth was risky and painful. All our females ancestors that did have kids, probably felt the pain was worth it because the sex felt so good.

That seems weird to me.Most women literally do this to get resources.

If woman's libido is higher,why I keep hearing men complaining about not getting sex from wives?One reason I will guess is kids

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

How long in human history do you think the concept of resources exist? Maybe when humans founded fire? Or when they made the 1st tool? If humans are 4.2 million years old, would it be more reasonable to think biological dimorphism happened during our more primitive times? Maybe before we even had the ability to talk?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How long in human history do you think the concept of resources exist

Forever

If humans are 4.2 million years old, would it be more reasonable to think biological dimorphism happened during our more primitive times?

That makes sense.Biological dimorphism still exists.Men go for fertile one and woman go for man with resource. During primitive time, weren't man hunters and woman gather to get meat or other?They mated with thar tpye of man. Maybe I am wrong or need to read about it

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Men who don't get enough sex from their wives probably have weak dick game tbh. The women doesn't get an orgasm, so she doesn't feel like doing it.

I make sure to have good dick game. My wife still wants sex even with two kids.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Is it really fully dependent on man's dick game?

[–]BumblingBeta 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Men fall into a lame sex coma while womens stamina only increases after sex, so much so that some Asian cultures believe that women actually steal mens life force during sex…

No, women get tired after orgasm too. She gets sensitive down there (just like a penis does) and wants to sleep (like many men do). If she's still up for it, that means she hasn't orgasmed properly enough.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

That's a fair critique.

Do you think it's a fair statement to say:

It's easier for men to orgasm with any woman, than it is for women to orgasm with any man?

[–]BumblingBeta 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Sorry it makes it seem like I disagree with your whole post.

I agree that giving a woman really good sex is very important to her staying with you. The sex needs to be varied as well, not just the same thing all the time, and you got to make her cum, either with your dick or mouth or both.

Yes that statement sounds accurate.

I think I'm a weird man because I can get more hard and more turned on who shows she really wants me and has great skills, compared to a hot woman who has little enthusiasm and poor skills. But for other men I've heard that sex is only physical and it's only the looks of the woman that matter. I might create a thread on that actually. Not sure if discussion about that would be allowed here. Just to hear other men's opinions.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

It's okay. Everyone is trying to tear me a new one lol. I got thick skin.

From the sounds of it, it seems like you enjoy dominating your women sexually. I think that's normal, I too have the feeling. Maybe your primal proclivity to dominate is higher than most men. You would probably do well with bdsm play.

[–]BumblingBeta 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Because I want a woman who is really into me, that means I like to dominate them?? :o

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know where to start with this, so I’ll summarise with three words.

Inaccurate Misandrist Horseshit.

Women do NOT have the same sex drive as men. Full stop. Why?

Because testosterone has a pivotal role in the libido of both sexes.

Female bodybuilders that inject the stuff typically report a “thousand percent” increase in libido.

Therefore the central premise of OP’s comment is false.

[–]TriggurWarning 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bruh, if men weren't thirsty as fuck compared to women the human race would have died out a long time ago.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think the "thirst" that we see, is more of a desperation for a lack of basic affection.

Studies show that woman are aroused when prompted or suggested. While men are the ones doing the prompting or suggesting.

I don't think women are any less sexually interested than men. I'm more incline to believe that, that's the matrix that people want us to believe.

Women purity is what men desire, and women know this. So they like to under report their libido to give the impression that they are more pure. The same could be said for men. Men want to be perceived as a stud/player, and will over report their libido to give the impression of sexual prowess.

I'm starting to think that my perceived notion that men are the hornier sex is a false notion. As the sexual liberation of woman started to take hold, I'm seeing more and more younger women being open about their libido.

We can also discuss that men t-levels have been declining for the last 50+ years.

If testosterone is the hormone of choice for men to have an active libido, wouldn't it be interesting that maybe we're entering a paradigm shift now? Maybe women libido was scored at 50/100 and it was consistent for the last 50 years. And maybe men who were 100/100 in the past, are now dropping below 49/100 in recent years?

From personal experience, my libido was never that high to begin with. And it was probably due to the lack to testosterone.

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