My story has been documented on here so I’m not going into that.

We 54/m, 47/f, had agreed on 50/50 custody with her as primary. I had agreed to pay her CS of $1,000/mo which she said was acceptable. My salary at that point, $168k, hers, 128k. The CSpayment would help her get through. Since then, she has accepted a new job that is 40 miles away and she is making comparable money to me. My son 13 yo going into 8th next year, casually mentioned that when they were talking she wants him to go to high school at her new district… My thoughts now are, he can decide who he lives with…right? If he wants to continue in his current district at the high school he feeds into, he can choose to live with me… Am I seeing this correctly? And should I tell him that he has the right to choose? We’ve tried to keep from pulling the kids into this and things had been totally amicable up to this point…then she throws this in!

Just need advice on how to handle it…