My wife and I have been together for 15 years, 13 as a married couple. We've had our struggles but I've always thought/known she was the one true love of my life. We've both been married before and she is the only one that has ever made me truly happy. Recently we've started growing apart, I could feel the distance. When we talked she said she needed to find herself again. She's depressed and wants to feel better. I told her I would support whatever she needed to do that and I would be there for her. She started hanging out with single friends from work (I believe female) and they wanted to go dancing. She took a trip to another town with another friend that I know for a weekend. Doing yoga and other workout things...but the distance was only growing.

Yesterday, our daughter was coming back for spring break and we were supposed to meet at home. She isn't there when we all are and we look up her location to see if she's close...it's location finder is turned off so we don't know.

it all came to a head last night... I told her how I was feeling and she said she couldn't do it anymore...she didn't want to do it anymore. She lost the fire for us and didn't trust our relationship anymore. I told her I wasn't giving up no matter what she said, we had built way too much with our family (2 kids, 19 yo and 12 yo) and I didn't want it torn apart. She said she couldn't keep living it.

She fell asleep... I did not and have been up all night and I came to work at 6am just because I couldn't stand to be there. She woke up and nothing...no talk other than me saying bye.

I'm lost and I have no idea where to turn to. I feel on the verge of crying and hard to have conversations with people. I'm not sure what to expect from her when we get home or going forward. I don't want it to end.