Today i was to my ex’s place to see my son (this is what the judge established). I have 4 days a month, 4 hours a day. She allowed me to stay more, seeing the baby is developing faster (I am there only for him, so he has my full attention). But today she provoked me (not the first time since in the past i was able to distinguish her trying to record me after provoking) and i wasn’t able to understand this until later, after she provoked me by initiating a contradictory discussion (we have been 17 years together so she knows me very well). Finally I exploded saying some rough things, i moved to another room trying to avoid discussing (after i told her several times that we should not discuss while our son is present, since he understands we are arguing). She followed me with her phone in her hand and only then i understood she was provoking me in order to record. I then went to the front door and started to get dressed for leaving. She came after me trying to block me, i pushed her, she hit me on the ear, i took her phone and destroyed it…our son was there crying the whole time…i went out, she started yealing to her neighbours to call the police. I spoke to them explaining what happened, then left. I am not sure what she will do, probably call cops and declare i was violent with her (although i never hit her, if i hit her she’d be destroyed). So now i am worried about which lies she will tell police, and i blocked her on all channels. Won’t ever come back there.
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