My divorce was finalized just a couple of weeks ago and my home buyout refi just went through. My GF who've I've dated for over 2 years, have been having arguments. during an argument asked that when she ever moves in with her kids , can she build equity on my mortgage. I said no. The house wasn't even mine yet and we've been having issues. It was quite disturbing that she'd even ask that when we have other issues to address first. She's been financially strapped but still, that threw a red flag. Then she posted in a mom's group airing out the dirty laundry and not really telling all the details to make her look good. A friend of mine is also in that same group and she showed me the post. I got so f****** mad that I immediately ended the relationship. I loved her but ive been hurting from that and had stressing about her lately. I feel a little better and relieved the next day to shed the drama but I know I'm going to miss her immensely.