Hello, I'm a 24 year old that's two months into my separation and it's 100% headed towards divorce. We have two kids together and it's making this situation hell for me because otherwise I'd probably never speak another word to this woman again. I'm considering getting a vasectomy because I genuinely don't think I'm ever going to want to have kids again and be trapped by another woman. I love my children to death and have zero regret having them but I feel like it would unfair to them if I had a kid with another woman and actually had that kid in my life more regularly. I want to focus on the kids I already have and give them my all. I also don't need to be permenantly tied to another woman again like this and want to really be able to enjoy my time to myself as well as be able to enjoy another relationship without the stressors kids can put on them. I don't know if it's stupid or if I'm selfish. I also worry that no woman is going to want a man that already has two kids but doesn't want anymore. Not sure what I should do.