Well, I just subscribed to this sub. 32 M. I have an appointment with an attorney at the beginning of next week to start to figure out our finances. We have been together for 9 years, married for 7. No kids, and we don’t own a house. The divorce shouldn’t be very ugly. She wanted it, but I didn’t. She has someone else already lined up. I have made no other plans for the last 9 years. I have no clue where to go from here. I don’t want to make myself sound innocent, I have made some mistakes too. But I was always faithful and I always showed her unconditional love.

I’ll be putting in a two week notice at my job next week. I’ve moved to my current location at her request 6 years ago. She wanted to be closer to her family, and that was alright with me. Now that she is leaving, I have nothing left down here, and I’m moving about an hour and a half away to be closer to family so they can help me through this.

I don’t really know what else to say right now. I’m sure I’ll be making a lot of posts to this sub over the next several months. I just never knew something could hurt this badly. She and I laid in the same bed last night and I held her all night long.