Me and my STBXW have been separated for 2 and a half months now. And this entire time she has been giving more and more mixed signals as if she still wants me as a husband but doesn’t want to call it that or atleast wants the none sexual benefits of a husband. I’m in the process of moving out at the beginning of the new year. Still sleeping on the couch.

She’s still constantly asking for me to take care of the morning routine alone so she can sleep in.

She has asked me to scrub her back while she was in the shower (she was talking about trying to hide her butt)

Pop her pimples, massage her thighs cause they hurt from the gym, massage her back.

Asks if her butt looks bigger, even asked if it feels firmer (asking me to feel it)

Tells me and shows me bra and pantie sets she got. Or new dresses

Gave me a kiss on the forehead (forget why she did)

Joking about wanting things for Christmas even tho we decided to get each other only one thing and she already knew I got her something

She still makes me dinner every now and then we started watching a show together

But then the next moment is being very cold shutting her bedroom door not really having a conversation with me. Bring up the divorce and the logistics of everything.

I had a conversation with her about it and she says that everything she does she would have done with a friend. But

I know this is a form of breadcrumbing, but when does it end, it’s making it much harder to move on. But also makes me think she is having doubts or not really knowing what she wants. Also would like to hear other stories about breadcrumbing