Psycho ex wife

WillyT_21 · 2023-10-31T02:07:03+00:00

When I went grey rock she couldn't handle it. She even invaded my personal space once....like literally got in my space because I just kept calling her out on her bullshit. You know how you beat them? Don't play their game. Play yours.

One time my ex said to me "my dad would be so disappointed"

For context her father is the most awesome man I ever met......my son is named after him. He passed in 04. So I responded.

Yes your dad would be disappointed. I guarentee he wouldn't put up with an 1\8 of what I have from you and your behavior.

"Let's not talk about my dad"

Ya bitch, let's not.

xjeeperx · 2023-10-31T02:00:23+00:00

Women usually don’t have any repercussions for acting in the manner you described. Judges ignore or excuse it. Continue to be the gray rock.

Complex_Meal2687 · 2023-10-31T02:30:47+00:00

As crazy as this sounds, what most of us are saying is she is acting unhinged to draw you out, and to get you to do the same. That behavior was always a part of her. Her ace in the hole. When the honeymoon stage wanes in the marriage she steps closer to that box to open it. When she thinks it's a worst comes to worse set of scenarios for her, she will NOT hesitate to play it. Unfortunately, society and the courts/law enforcement will overlook a woman's behavior or the MAJORITY of it, and dictate the situation based off of if a man has transgressions. DO NOT FALL FOR IT. In some shape form or fashion they ALL do it. Record and document. Do not stop doing it. For those who are starting this process or considering it, and think that that woman across from you WONT go that far, think again. For all the guys that are new, learn from all the men who have come before you, me, and prior who didn't fall for it but could have. Once you see it, hell read most of the stories here. You will never look at them the same way again. At least most won't. Keep learning and try to get the relationship you want if that's what you want. If not, jump back into Marriage Incorporated. There is a reason 2nd marriages are 60-70 failures and 3rds are 70+ to 80. failures

Bernie51Williams · 2023-10-31T01:28:52+00:00

Nothingburger meant to get a reaction from you she can use. Move on.

No woman has self control

Reflog1791 · 2023-10-31T04:22:44+00:00

She’s trying to bait you into an anti harassment order for a favorable outcome. If that fails she still gets to tell her friends about how you’re harassing her. The form email on a weekly predictable schedule is appropriate if she’s playing custody games.

You messed up by responding to her rants.

I would send the form email at the exact same time next week but no longer send explanations and excuses when she lashes out. If you’re sending them too often for no reason that’s another story. Sounds like you’re just setting up the weekly pick up time. It only needs to be sent one time though. Bi weekly could mean twice a week duplicate message or once every two weeks for the pickup.

Ok_Transition_4914 · 2023-10-31T14:48:12+00:00

Let it go, keep doing what you're doing. Don't try to justify anything you do, don't argue, don't apologize. Don't call her out for abusive language or using profanity. Just play it straight and keep doing what you do.

She's escalating and trying to provoke you into reacting so she can use it against you.

When it doesn't work, she'll escalate. Let her escalate. Every escalation is a gift to you. Document everything. Download the texts and emails. Download the voicemails. Take notes on the bad personal interactions and third party comments.

If you can, get your hands on screenshots of social media interactions that take digs at you. In the end if that's all you have the judge isn't going to care.

But one day, if the stars align, she'll start crossing legal lines and then you'll have fully provable and legal backing for restraining orders and grounds for DV orders.

I won't go into details for reasons, but go do some research on what information is legally only allowed to access by only you without permission. This includes things that we just normally just assume should be freely shared between married couples.

upvotersfortruth · 2023-10-31T03:18:19+00:00

Funnily enough, they don't seem to get less pyscho throughout the divorce process.

grandpaharoldbarnes · 2023-10-31T16:53:00+00:00

Jesus Christ my ex has a twin.

Dude. Same. Just get a protection order and be done. The silence is golden.

captainchippsixx · 2023-10-31T21:05:17+00:00

Stay cool Luke. She will implode in other aspects of her life beixaee she can’t take it that your doing better. She is a shit bag.

One day the opportunity will come and you can stick it to her. When it happens. Take the low road and laugh your ass off.

NBDad · 2023-11-03T11:14:42+00:00

My reply was "I will continue to send my expected arrival to avoid any confusion..."

There's your mistake in case you missed it. Ignore. Don't reply. Continue to do as you have always done. She baited, you bit.

Comfortable-Angle660 · 2023-10-31T11:54:34+00:00

Verbal abuse, just ignore.

That said, I would not be send pre-emotive text messages. Only send if you are going to be late.

janegeladao · 2023-10-31T12:34:08+00:00

I see a lot of people in here saying she's doing that on purpose, but I have my doubts. From your description, your ex sounds a lot like "someone I know", if you know what I mean. Look into Intermittent Explosive Disorder.

Inside-Proof-2006 · 2025-04-23T04:11:29+00:00

Mine claims she's the worst but face changes when she's mentioned. Actually whole mood. And their shared 9 year old he has full custody of and who I raised since he was 3... She lost custody and cheated thats why they had a divorce started WAY before me. To this day she continues to tell their 9 year old awful lies about his dad and about me. She never has gas (sells her body, LLC & UBER) But collects disability... Never takes him because her other kids as she got pregnant two months after I did because she's insane... Claims she's over him and he claims the same but something isn't adding up. I just had a restraining order on her.....his whole facial affect gets diff & he sees me notice & tries to mask it. She's called DCF on false charges 9 times each case closed as I'm a nurse & responsible mother... Publicly uses my name meanwhile blocked and said she hates my three year old and also is close to my fiancés mom and grandma who cut us off and said they'll never accept my son who’s 3... The ex wifes from H3LL

Title	Psycho ex wife
Author	poopymcbuttfart
Upvotes	11
Comments	31
Date	October 31, 2023 1:04 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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