Single and bored

No-Exit6560 · 2023-07-13T13:35:48+00:00

Better than married and fucking miserable 😂

Get a dog, cat, lizard, bird.

Go buy a boat, learn how to draw, dance etc…

Plenty-Entertainer71 · 2023-07-13T15:05:31+00:00

I actually don’t mind it now, do whatever the hell I want on my own terms

Either_Evidence_1986 · 2023-07-13T11:31:58+00:00

This is my biggest fear is the boredom. Being left alone with my thoughts. Not seeing my kids everyday. I'm very sorry your going through this. You are not alone

Heavy-Abbreviations8 · 2023-07-13T16:01:15+00:00

I know it sounds crass, but find something to do. Follow local Instagrams and Reddits. When something looks even the slight bit interesting then go.

I work Sunday, Tuesday, Saturday. I have open water swimming, Monday and Thursday nights. I go to church now on Wednesday nights. I always plan something on Fridays. A round trip train ticket to DC where I live is 34 bucks, so I plan to go again soon. I just cannot stop moving or I get overwhelmed.

Become the best you that you can be and have fun doing what you want when you want.

ronin2722 · 2023-07-13T13:23:41+00:00

The loneliness sucks. I dont miss her I miss a companion.

Zealousideal-Bear-37 · 2023-07-13T13:22:49+00:00

Gamify your life . You can literally do whatever you want now my man 💪💪

laser_scalpel · 2023-07-13T21:11:14+00:00

meetup.com find likeminded folks nearby to hang out and do activities.

AllUpInTheCut · 2023-07-13T16:04:44+00:00

Join a bowling league

Reflog1791 · 2023-07-13T17:34:45+00:00

Pick up golf.

ArtichokeSavings9472 · 2023-07-13T19:30:44+00:00

Get into a gym and go for it ! You will be amazed at what changes you can make physically when you eat right sleep and stay consistent for 6 months . Expand the area where you hang out visit new places talk to everyone - not the weird why won’t this guy shut up person but interact see what’s out there make some friends say yes more !

Dangerous_Item_6879 · 2023-07-13T22:26:09+00:00

Get some hobbies. Like all the crap you couldn’t do before.

catter3423 · 2023-07-14T00:45:48+00:00

Plan some stuff to look forward to. I haven’t even left the house yet but already looking forward to a couple of trips during my weeks without kids.

JamieMadrox2020 · 2023-07-14T02:37:25+00:00

I went out of town myself for a week. Rented a car and did some day trips out of destination city. Alone. No rush or itinerary. It was grrreeeaat.

My problem is not single/alone I can handle that. The lack of sex gets tough.

Proud_Atmosphere8478 · 2023-07-14T03:43:33+00:00

There are many activities and hobbies to do, and being bored is actually okay. If your worried about being single or implying you want a companion, get a dog. You can also be single and date.

BlessedAF-FR · 2023-07-14T03:59:40+00:00

Ok.. So what are you doing here. Build a puzzle. Touch some grass. TF!?🤦‍♂️

Title	Single and bored
Author	GreedyPlankton9935
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	July 13, 2023 7:21 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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