I’m not sure what happened over the weekend, but I’m glad it did. I have been battling in this fight for months. My STBXW made the call. And I fought the good fight in effort to save my Family. I’ve endured some much abuse over the years. I’ve been called every name in the book. As far as she goes, she tries daily to hurt me. But it’s somehow just become funny. My response is usually “okay, that sounds good”.

I’ve somehow become more dialed in at work. It was ROUGH for a couple of months. God has had his hand on my shoulder.

Somehow I have this new attitude to gratitude for my current situation. If my STBXW was civil. If she was kind. If she was caring. I would sit in my new place and continue to pine for her. I would obsess on how to get her back. Now I’m just looking forward to the next phase of my life.

Brothers, I hope your switch, switches.