Guys, I’ve been working hard on saving my relationship. For the past 3 months, I have been fighting hard. Taking insults everyday, and having her tap dance on my brain. She changes her mind daily, and I’ve been trying to play along. (Although it be tough) I have talked to home builders, real estate agents, looked into renting apartments. (she says I’m dragging my feat)

As of today, we were going to nest to try to hopefully reconcile and create the best circumstance for our child in the meanwhile. Friday I put down money on an apartment. This was the plan until this evening, when she told me that she would only do that until May. That I should make other plans. I talked to a home builder this evening, and my place can be ready in 6 months. She is saying that I need to get another apartment that my Son can stay in with me… that she’s taking the house in 2 months. Can she do this? Am I responsible for the money for another apartment? We have absolutely no paperwork done… no separation, no nothing. Can she effectively throw me out, we both own our house. She said she would buy me out… or I can buy her out.

There are no lawyers involved. I told her that I would make no moves until I contact a lawyer. She then threatened to tell our child quicker than we planned.

Advice please.