My wife asked for a divorce about a week ago and became pretty hostile when I asked about my half of the equity in the house. We both spoke to a lot of lawyers and it turns out I could get half of her business if I wanted. I don’t even want all of my equity. I just need some for a down payment on a new home. Today we spoke and she finally listened and we came to an agreement. It was so much easier being mad at her. Being amicable seems to be making this whole thing tougher. She wants the divorce due to the distance me attending nursing school created. Still crushed and devastated. Wish she would not have done this. Anyways at least i got a small sliver of good news today.