Did being red pilled change your physical preferences in the women you wanted to date/marry/sleep with?

luvem_aa · 2023-02-19T17:41:23+00:00

Wtf am I reading? I'm happy he's your ex now

alexbrove · 2023-02-19T17:42:37+00:00

This is gonna sound really harsh but here's my opinion. Feel free to ignore.

Your ex bf is Red pilled therefore he's brainwashed. It's close to impossible to help or save anyone that's brainwashed.
He wants you to feel insecure and that's why he's making you jump through hoops and comparing you to other women. He's trying to get you to win his 'love' and attention.
What you're experiencing with him may look like love but it isn't. Read up and learn about healthy relationships, watch programmes and youtube videos about brainwashing and narcissist personalities, as this will save years from your life.

I just finished watching the docuseries called 'Stolen Youth' and it shows what happens when you become brainwashed. What you've described doesn't sound like love. It sounds more like manipulation and control. It probably feels addictive but that's how manipulation works, it's meant to be addictive.

Sounds like you're already very close to saving yourself so well done. Anytime you need reassuring, keep learning about healthy v unhealthy relationships and it'll remind you that you've made the right decision.

I really hope that this helps.

difficultconcept · 2023-02-19T19:01:04+00:00

Did being red pilled change your physical preferences in the women you wanted to date/~~marry~~/sleep with?

Promiscuous blondes with fake tits and MILFs.

Before the Red Pill, I was just a regular person who preferred meeting other regular people.

tinyhermione · 2023-02-19T19:13:12+00:00

Do you want to date someone this dumb? Think the 18 year old Brazilian models are going to sleep with him?

You sound like a much better catch than him.

I think he's looking at a long stretch of being single and you'll find someone who is actually kind and not wildly childish.

anthonyrecenello · 2023-02-19T19:41:15+00:00

Why are you still dating him? Show him women like you don’t date people like him.

pfiz23 · 2023-02-19T17:47:05+00:00

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Meat_Vegetable · 2023-02-19T20:17:43+00:00

Even when I was redpilled I liked big women, still do lol

Coollogin · 2023-02-19T18:33:04+00:00

I’m still in the bargaining/investigating part of the break up where it feels necessary to figure out why we didn’t and probably would never work out. He wasn’t the greatest person before becoming obsessed with MTR, Kevin Samuels, Andrew Tate, or Pearlythings but now he’s just unbearable.

Why did you want to be in a relationship with him in the first place if he wasn’t so great? Isn’t being alone better than being with someone who doesn’t bring anything to the table?

WWhiMM · 2023-02-19T23:09:37+00:00

Wild guess. He doesn't actually want a skinny 20 year old, but he does enjoy calling a woman fat and being insulting. So now he's roped in someone else to bully, which is what he really wants.

Naus1987 · 2023-02-19T19:40:48+00:00

What drew you to him? When I read stories like this where men have shit personalities I can only imagine the woman was an airhead and lured in by his looks or money. So what were his redeeming qualities prior?

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I’ve never been fully red pilled as I discovered it in my 30s and a lot of it had always been blshit. But I empathize with the struggle of my fellow man.

Personally, I’ve always wanted my partners to weigh less than I do. and right now I weight 180 and my current partner is about 90.

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I really have nothing against fat people, but a lot of the habits fat people have weird me out. Watching someone eat way more food than I do feels weird.

Stress eating looks weird.

And then people who don’t get ant activity or are just excessively lazy feels weird.

If my partner gained weight, but maintained her current eating habits and exercise routines then I would never fault her or criticize her for weight.

I mean, I wouldn’t criticize someone I was dating for weight anyways, I just wouldn’t date them.

But I would comment if someone changed their habits. Started eating a lot more or switched to garbage food. Or if someone gave up exercise and just became apathetic.

I would call out those changes, but not the weight. Some people just get fat due to age, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Dr_Lovemuchmore · 2023-02-19T23:45:30+00:00

Minus the age range stuff, there’s nothing wrong with people having preferences. Im a young man who prefers fit girls. Is what it is.

Lose the weight, not for anyone else but yourself dude. You’ll be proud that you did it.

Edit:also don’t even worry about the guy and move on. Out of sight out of mind.The dude is obviously going through some quarter life crisis that’s NOT your problem.

HGW86 · 2023-02-20T00:42:32+00:00

I feel the red-pill pushes this expectation for what an ideal man SHOULD be. Dating a Brazilian super model sounds like some sort of expectation he put on himself, anything less than he would be "settling".

It's obnoxiously ironic because a lot of rage bait that red/black pill influencers use to get men to get hooked on that sort of garbage is to show some dumb tart on a social media site talk about impossible standards that she's set for men (such as being over 6 feet and owning a boat or some shit).

I'm sorry you got caught up in all of that but I think once the dust settles and you've processed the whole situation, you'll come to realize he probably did you a big favor by breaking up with you.

ave-nocturna · 2023-02-20T01:07:31+00:00

He now says Brazilian women, models, and 18-20 year olds are his type.

Shallow comment but is he even attractive enough (physically and otherwise) to realistically be able to obtain models and super young women who probably want someone approximate to them in looks and age? Because otherwise whatever "preferences" he has are just a bunch of irrelevant nonsense - would be very unlikely that his desired women would have interest in him anyway so he's just talking out of his ass.

Kingdionethethird · 2023-02-20T12:36:14+00:00

The Red pill community is really just a bunch of squares regurgitating talking points that their online RP cult leaders preach. Most of the guys who follow that ideology weren’t hitting on ish in the first place.

Your ex has a preference that he can’t even attract. Be glad he’s your ex. Plenty good men that will treat your right.

mynameisburner · 2023-02-20T16:52:25+00:00

AHHHH-HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

JUST LIKE THAT?!

He just changes his mind about his body type just because his redpill overlords tell him that’s his type

A’ight 🤣🤣🤣

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Ok-Programmer-8579 · 2023-02-19T22:54:14+00:00

to answer the title, not really. the preferences can change depending on which influencer the redpilled in question is following. and concerning the story : i hope that you have the strength to pass over that

Title	Did being red pilled change your physical preferences in the women you wanted to date/marry/sleep with?
Author	pfiz23
Upvotes	35
Comments	50
Date	February 19, 2023 5:28 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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