Is there hope??

sickbabe · 2023-04-27T01:54:55+00:00

I'm sure there's plenty of people who will have better advice on potentially changing his mind, but if I were you I wouldn't bother and plot my escape instead. abuse in relationships often doesn't start until you hit the big milestones like marriage and pregnancy, and this is very worrying (especially considering crowder's recent divorce announcement). did he only start talking to you about it then?

fathergoose77 · 2023-04-27T02:53:19+00:00

Would he be willing to go to relationship counseling? Sounds like the communication department could be improved between you two. Especially if emotions tend to run high (assuming from your other comments), it might be a good idea to talk about those differences and how it’s affecting the relationship with a third party. I’m sure you both have a lot of things to say to each other.

o0sssoiiku_wuk · 2023-04-27T02:49:47+00:00

Perhaps you can send him videos debunking JP and IDW rhetoric. I really like The Kavernacle on yt, he has several videos on JP.

dzjj17 · 2023-04-27T19:08:14+00:00

Do you talk with him about what you don’t agree with and is he even aware of what you think? Those 2 people you named are considered Bluepill simps to TRP content creators that you should be more worried about like MGTOW or pseudo-alpha PUAs

I_eat_sand_everyday · 2023-04-27T09:10:11+00:00

He has been sucked into a cult. Once there, he may or may not gain clarity. He has been brainwashed to the point where he will see you as the enemy.

The best thing to do is to find a therapist, get all this on record, if it gets so bad you have to leave him, your lawyer can subpoena your doctor’s notes. Make sure you are able to show his actions escalating.

You can always claim something along the lines of mental anguish if it comes down to a divorce.

DerZerficker20x5cm · 2023-04-27T06:45:50+00:00

He’s probably just afraid of getting divorced and having a shitty divorce life. Just talk to him about his fears. The best thing you can really do is tell him that you will always stay with him no matter what. Then he will not need it anymore and eventually realize it himself. Easy as that. Don’t give him any reason to believe you are going to divorce him and just be a good wife without being annoying and let him focus on the problems he’s facing and care about his feelings. Men do have feelings and you seem to not realize this is most likely the cause for the red pill interest.

Freethinker312 · 2023-04-28T11:25:42+00:00

My husband is falling for red pill stuff, but specifically the political kind—Crowder, Jordan Peterson, etc.

Jordan Peterson isn't a redpiller. He is not as great as his fans think he is, however he also isn't that bad as people who are against him claim. It is not necessarily something to worry about. He certainly doesn't influence men to become bad husbands. So what exactly does your husband believe that makes you so worried?

He only started acting like this right around the time we got married about two years ago.

How does he act? Which concrete actions are worrisome, according to you?

We’ve been together since 2013. Is there anything I can do to help him or get him out?

You admit being abusive yourself. Stop being abusive. Become a better wife for him: First take the beam out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your spouse's eye.

ArminiusLad · 2023-04-27T13:28:47+00:00

This subreddit is just left wing propaganda at this point lmao

Petyr111 · 2023-04-27T18:05:05+00:00

Good for him. He is fed up with being the weaker side of the relationship.

Your post is basically saying "how do I tame him back?"

I hope he starts to hit the gym and improve himself and get girls.

niceskinthrowaway · 2023-04-27T02:01:03+00:00

just don't watch youtube. its pretty simple

SecondEldenLord · 2023-04-27T19:00:37+00:00

I don't see the issue. Why can't he watch what he wants? If he wants to be right wing, let him, those people have almost nothing to do with redpill.

Nightchanger · 2023-04-27T14:15:41+00:00

Consult the local church, synagogue, mosque, or other religious figure. Ideally someone who knows the problems with RP.

YuviManBro · 2023-04-27T12:55:36+00:00

If he's into debate type stuff, there's a youtuber called Destiny who is a voice of reason from the side of the left/not red pill who's doing a lot of counter-advocacy/debates with red pill types these days, but his content is a bit eccentric haha not for everyone

xvszero · 2023-04-27T19:59:40+00:00

Is this a huge shift, like was he liberal / progressive before? Or is this just a new extension of beliefs he already had?

Title	Is there hope??
Author	WitchyWriter94
Upvotes	17
Comments	38
Date	April 27, 2023 1:25 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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