Sexual partner count

msinclaire · 2021-10-19T19:14:01+00:00

Personally, if a man has been the town dick (lots of one-off partners) I wouldn’t be interested. Yes, men can be seen as sluts too. Not attractive.

atman714 · 2021-10-19T18:47:38+00:00

I have never dated a girl that was dying to know my body count. Typically all they care about is if I've been sexually active, do I wear a condom, and if not, have I been tested for stds? And as a man you should be asking the same thing.

Inareskai · 2021-10-19T19:04:02+00:00

'Women' as a whole do not have a single preference. Women aren't a monolith and don't have a hive mind.

For both genders there is usually a question regarding how many people a person has been with before, generally more in the vein of past relationships or 'had a few flings that I don't really remember' etc. And some people may be more or less concerned with how many previous people or the circumstances, but for the most part it's just a getting to know you thing before starting a sexual relationship and establishing if any STI tests need doing.

If a man has had sex less than fifty times but each time was with a different escort could this be seen as the equivalent of having sex hundreds of times with one woman?

No? Why on earth would those be equivalent?

Also why does it matter? No one is going to sit and ask you how many individual times you've had sex? If they do that's really, really weird.

tiposk · 2021-10-19T19:58:41+00:00

I'd rather have a man who's got a similar body count to mine and under similar circumstances. This is of course a non-issue in the real world because attitude says everything about compatibility you need to know way before the topic of sexual history comes up, and there would be no way for me to verify sexual experience if I were obsessed with it. All I can confirm is that my boyfriend slept with at least one woman.

siade95 · 2021-10-19T21:01:48+00:00

men that have had 1-2 long term relationship are much better in bed than men that sleep around a lot. that is because in long term relationships there is a lot more communication and partners try different things. casual sex tends to be more vanilla and you don't learn much from it as a man, with escorts it is even worse since they are just there to get you off as fast as possible so they just fake everything and move on with their day. just because you can put it in and move back and forth does not mean you are good in bed. also more partners mean higher chances of stds. stuff like herpes and hpv can be transmitted even if you wear condom. so no, having a large number of partners is not attractive in a man either, as far as I am concerned

courtrra · 2021-10-19T21:57:02+00:00

Personally I don’t wish to know my partners body count. It doesn’t matter to me.

Learningtolove2021 · 2021-10-19T18:36:24+00:00

I don’t have a preference on this score, per se, but I will say that the personality of someone who has had previous long term relationships would probably be a much better match for me than the personality of someone who has had a lot of one night stands. What’s important about experience is having learned to read body language and other sexual cues in order to be a responsive and solicitous lover. Number of anything is not that important.

PollaTronante · 2021-10-19T23:12:45+00:00

A man being sexually experienced is not important to me in the slightest. Don’t buy into RP lies about what women desire in men.

turpin23 · 2021-10-19T22:49:34+00:00

I have seen situations where women preferred the company of a well vetted divorcees over single men because they considered the well vetted divorcee safe. Problem is you can't easily lie about divorce because marriage and divorce records are easy to lookup. So if you want to lie and don't want to admit to being a virgin or incel, probably best to claim a single LTR.

Brilliant_Usual_743 · 2021-10-20T03:12:18+00:00

The lower the count, the more attractive to me if I knew, although I'd never ask. If I was interested in hook-ups I wouldn't care that the body count is high and that he's a bit of a heartbreaker, but as I'm looking for something long-term, it's a great quality to not have fucked the whole planet, as self-restraint is a great indicator of success in relationships (to me). If he's been highly promiscuous, yet aware that phase was in no way conductive to real, genuine happiness or confidence, that's ok too. Depends

UpstairsExchange2241 · 2021-10-19T19:44:55+00:00

Less is more imo

SithQueenGigi · 2021-10-20T07:28:49+00:00

Yeah I was with a man who was a manwhore that I regret hooking up exclusively with in the past, so its unattractive if he has had many partners. I avoid men who say they have a high body count i seen it here on Reddit sadly and attracted a man who impregnates multiple woman cuz he thinks he is Genghi's Khan very weird...

Title	Sexual partner count
Author	Comprehensive-City75
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Date	October 19, 2021 6:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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