A Dude leads her on for 2.5 months leeching her emotionally daily saying he wants to take things slow. Of course the advice is to communicate and talk to him honestly.

KetoKittenAround · 2022-02-04T21:48:47+00:00

This is why women should date other men if they are not in a committed relationship. This guy would be forgotten!

whiskey_and_oreos · 2022-02-04T21:32:38+00:00

Of course they're telling her to cOmMuNiCaTe. Except there's nothing to talk about because he's putting in basically no effort and getting everything in return. He has no incentive to do more because he's a scrote and wouldn't receive more. Water always meets its own level.

And this is why "multiple essay messages and 30 min voice notes" is a complete waste of your time. He has time to craft his responses and cultivate a persona while using her for emotional labor, all while she thinks they're really building something and projecting onto that persona. That persona and the relationship she's imagined were never real and she's in for one hell of a wake up call.

millennialpink2000 · 2022-02-04T23:59:25+00:00

LOL communicate? There are already 30 min voice messages lololol

LR_today · 2022-02-05T00:23:59+00:00

Looks like someone is a fuck buddy to a probably married guy who has no intention of doing anything but using her as a free sex doll.

daisy_0720 · 2022-02-05T07:56:07+00:00

She's basically a sock.

He's emotionally masturbating into her when he feels like talking about himself then discards her once he's jizzed his feefees out.

BeanBagSize · 2022-02-05T05:13:27+00:00

"communicate" well yeah. She wants one thing, he wants another, talk about how its affecting each other, if he refuses to fix the hurtful behaviour, that it. you're done. full stop. nada. you've done the talky talky, youve made the issues and wants known, if he still refuses he can suck that thing he's so proud hes got. Communication is just that, and if he refuses to communicate, leave him. It's sickening to me how many people say they want to communicate when they consistently refuse to do so; it's just gaslighting bullshit. You had your chance now sod off.

ceramicunicorn · 2022-02-05T03:39:08+00:00

Wait. Is it just me having difficulty, or is it fair to say…how does anyone even make enough sense of this rambling, disjointed post to even give any advice in the first place?

Title	A Dude leads her on for 2.5 months leeching her emotionally daily saying he wants to take things slow. Of course the advice is to communicate and talk to him honestly.
Author	Bbqchilifries
Upvotes	141
Comments	18
Date	February 4, 2022 9:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/skorx5/a_dude_leads_her_on_for_25_months_leeching_her/
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