A Simple Rule to Live By...

ilikesoy_ · 2020-03-01T14:56:04+00:00

and ones who blame their abusive actions on their kink.

theyre porn sick and want to hurt you. end of story.

M1ssAndre · 2020-03-01T13:11:51+00:00

i mean yuh, course, but it's more complicated than that, these guys aren't outright mean to you they're manipulative, if you ever try to bring up something they did they'd turn around and make it look like they're the victim or start blaming you. Of course cut out the Fuck boys, Mommy boys, and manipulators, Cut out anyone that doesn't make you feel like the boss ass bitch that you are, you rule sis.

persephones_torch · 2020-03-01T14:57:44+00:00

Part of the brainwashing we get as little girls when we complain about the boy in class that pulled our hair or threw something at us. "He's mean to you because he likes you". It's so harmful to us and becomes the gateway to clown life.

pinkyberries · 2020-03-01T13:44:23+00:00

Pickmes date vile men thinking they can turn them into the kind loving boyfriend. So sad.

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-03-01T16:58:32+00:00

I love this. Simple and to the point. Negging isn’t cute it’s abuse

Such_Stardust · 2020-03-01T22:10:35+00:00

I think it's really important that we aren't shaming women. Fine there are some pickmes that need set aright... But most times it's MEN hiding their true selves.

Let's be careful with out "I wish women would get this" kind of statements and maybe turn them into "Let's start seeing men for who they are sooner... And act accordingly"

azngirl7689 · 2020-03-01T14:37:33+00:00

Why would anyone want a man who is mean? That’s crazy. Even in my pick me days I’d push back on it.

xbumblebee · 2020-03-01T20:17:32+00:00

It really is that simple, but according to most of my friends, understanding this concept is like understanding astrophysics.

It ain’t that hard woman, stop dating assholes! 🤦🏻‍♀️

IamStereotype · 2020-03-01T21:30:29+00:00

Simple, man good -> Cool! Have fun together, man bad -> dump his ass

moonligxt · 2020-03-01T23:28:52+00:00

I wished someone told me that when I was a teen

makeitfeelfaraway · 2020-03-02T07:14:38+00:00

needed this

Bovvsette · 2020-03-03T02:57:30+00:00

Who are unreasonably mean to anyone, really. Assholes are consistently assholes, so after the honeymoon phase is over, he'll treat you like all the waitresses and retail workers.

ParticularAmbition · 2020-03-01T14:19:14+00:00

It really is that simple. I wish more women would get this.

Kaykay0708 · 2020-03-01T16:01:20+00:00

I'm surprised that in this day and age this even needs to be said. 🙄

Have some self-respect. Everything else will come naturally, including rejecting disrespectful men.

AussieAhoy · 2020-03-02T04:52:05+00:00

What if they're joking?

Roasting/ banter is big part of the culture where I'm from

Title	A Simple Rule to Live By...
Author	CuriousCatNYC777
Upvotes	2805
Comments	53
Date	March 1, 2020 12:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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