Am I wrong?

outside-perception · 2020-06-11T14:29:09+00:00

No. That's the kind of territory that makes one feel like they're no longer a partner but a friend to listen to sexcapades. Thank you, next 💅🏻

bqluoeoedn · 2020-06-11T14:50:09+00:00

“You know how I feel about that. If it’s something you need, I support you. You can go find the right people for your MMF and I can move on separately.” smiles compassionately

Warrior-Kai · 2020-06-11T15:56:03+00:00

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Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-06-11T14:26:30+00:00

No you're not wrong, you're supposed to be his girlfriend, not his buddy for sexual adventures. If you already said no and he keeps bringing it up, that's a bad sign. When my ex brought it up once and I said I wouldn't be into it, he never brought it up again and was okay with my rejection.

If I were you I'd think of whether he has ignored it when you said no other times or if he is as good as you usually think of him.

dzgata · 2020-06-11T18:07:25+00:00

He’s literally bringing it up to make you more exposed or comfortable with the idea without asking you straight up. He wants for you to suggest it one day or get curious. Break up with the asshole.

MACMUA · 2020-06-11T14:30:42+00:00

Why are you even entertaining someone who wants to use you as a blow up doll with other ppl? Even if it’s something he’s into, shouldn’t be pressuring a girl to do it.

sadpourtoujours · 2020-06-11T18:56:09+00:00

Whenever a man ignores your verbalized concerns/requests and continues to do [insert whatever makes you uncomfortable here] he is probably garbage.

fernprincess · 2020-06-11T20:28:32+00:00

You are right to think it’s gross. My last three exes were always trying to talk about their previous sexual exploits and what studs they were. It was weird, uncomfortable, gross, and improper. Like, do they think it makes us think they are are amazing? Because instead it made me think they were trash. Of course they turned out to have problems in the bedroom and were not in fact studs. Not even close.

I now think men do it to make you think they are studs and have options so you try to chase them and go all pickmeisha on them. Just shows they are trashy, insecure, and have no intention toward committing to any woman. Now if they don’t stop when I ask, I’m running.

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-06-11T20:39:52+00:00

Even if he’s not telling you directly, he is hammering on this in order to normalize it before asking. Hoping you’ll stop being “uptight” before he drops the big question - “threesome baby?🥴

The fact that he doesn’t even respect your wish to stop bringing it up - why are you still accommodating his selfish ass??

Lopsidedbutinvisible · 2020-06-11T20:45:49+00:00

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CassieGreen85 · 2020-06-11T20:59:47+00:00

So you're literally communicating your feelings honestly and without beating around the bush, as so many LVM/NVM bitch to women about in r/relationshipadvice, yet he doesn't respect your request, feelings or opinions, and keeps ignoring them?

LVM/NVM. You know what to do.

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-06-11T18:13:16+00:00

Not at all. I would never name names or mention something that would make a guy feel compared so he shouldn’t either. The furthest comparison I ever made was, ‘sorry, I’m just frustrated, times before this position has worked with other people but it’s okay, there are other ones that work just fine, I’ll just try a different angle.’ See? That’s not being specific or making someone feel inadequate. There should be a feeling of excitement and trust to make it work with someone you care about, not comparing to the point where you feel he would dump you for his ex

Title	Am I wrong?
Author	Warrior-Kai
Upvotes	32
Comments	26
Date	June 11, 2020 12:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/h0xz8g/am_i_wrong/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/am-i-wrong.691857 https://theredarchive.com/post/691857

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