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temptressinateacup · 2020-07-22T15:45:36+00:00

The bar is in hell

medschoolrulez · 2020-07-22T17:44:53+00:00

My favorite is when they give you one compliment and then say "Ugh I'm being such a simp".... sir, you can just keep your stupid "compliment".

Lavender_flow · 2020-07-22T17:45:24+00:00

I want to laugh, but it is also SO SO sad. My boyfriend would be called a simp, because he does A LOT of nice things for me, without ever expecting anything in return. I do things for him because I love him, and he does things for me out of love as well. Still he would be called a simp for it.......... Ridiculous.

midge_rat · 2020-07-22T18:49:13+00:00

Find thee a man who is internet illiterate.

My HVM has a Facebook with less than 100 friends who are mostly family and people he’s known since elementary school. That’s his only social media. He doesn’t own a computer (just a basic smartphone), and he never does internet stuff beyond googling stuff and shopping.

It’s so refreshing. After my ex who was just steeped in porn and internet trash talk.

Luddites 4 lyfe!

ashwheee · 2020-07-22T22:18:41+00:00

I’ll never understand this?

I mean I understand the meme but this is a seriously scary new trend.

I have a friend-couple. When I first met them he doted on her and talked down on his friends who were legit incels/mgtows (they even share reddit things on IG. I’ve since unfollowed all of them.)

Something changed. He started hanging out with them a lot more and now he’s used some intel rhetoric against his girlfriend. It’s a trend I’m seeing with a lot of males lately and it scares me into being single for the rest of my years.

GenerousD-mensions · 2020-07-22T21:39:42+00:00

One of the guys I was dating before lockdown was super sweet and attentive one-on-one, but right before he introduced me to his friends for the first time he said he wouldn't be doing "anymore simping" while we were with them. How had he been simping? By showing attraction to and complimenting me, apparently. For context: I'm a little chubby (mostly in the boob/butt/hip region with a lil bit of tummy) which he was apparently into when we were alone together, but the instant we were around his friends he started acting like he was doing me a favour by dating me because I was soooo fat and gross, which his friends found HILAROUS! Suffice to say I ghosted his ass.

For his sake, I really hope his bros put out for all the crappy jokes because I don't see him ever having sex again otherwise. 😂

LadyArellano · 2020-07-22T16:39:40+00:00

I just screamed 🤣🤣 lol

Ready4theRapture · 2020-07-22T22:14:02+00:00

I've lost respect for every guy I've heard use that word un-ironically.

Eldest_Muse · 2020-07-22T17:34:01+00:00

Lmao! Twote 🤣

unbaguetteable · 2020-07-23T01:21:06+00:00

Pretty similar to those who are called "whipped" for simply caring and loving their gfs/wives openly and wholeheartedly. I used to find it funny but the more I thought about it, the more I realized those doting partners are HVM. Those guys that joke about it can't be on the same level because they're incapable of doing so 🤷🏻‍♀️ Nothing wrong with wanting to spend time with someone you're devoted to.

xnishk · 2020-07-22T22:21:48+00:00

I hate how the meaning of simp has been distorted

poppinkeems · 2020-07-23T00:56:09+00:00

Lol I told a guy that I’m not traveling across town to meet him for $2 pizza & he told me to go find a simp somewhere else... needless to say I blocked him with quickness ✌🏾✌🏾

Affectionate_Flow860 · 2020-07-22T18:04:17+00:00

Calling eachother simps isnt about being rude to the other guy its about saying that the woman doesn't deserve attention or compliment

The phrase is literally "Simpleton idolizing mediocre pu*sy" or something like that.

Its mysogyny nothing else.

I think it comes from relationships with their mother that really decides how a guy treats women sadly.

mfamilye · 2020-07-22T22:13:00+00:00

What is simping ??

VictoriaSobocki · 2020-07-23T01:44:14+00:00

Twote!

misshamy7 · 2020-07-24T07:47:30+00:00

My bf went to a trip to Detroit with all his work department, he told me that the guys wanted to go to the strip club, but he didn’t feel comfortable going since he wouldn’t be comfortable if the tables were reversed (me going to a strip club in another city).

All that night he was sending me screenshots of his group of pathetic “friends” calling him a simp or pussy-whipped for choosing to stay in the hotel bar and watch a game with a couple of beers. Most shocking part is that only 2/10 guys that went to the trip decided to stay in the hotel, and it is worth mentioning that more than half of these guys are in serious relationships/married one even had a wife with a baby on the way.

He instead chose to respect our agreement and we had a nice videocall. So, yeah basically men respecting women and their relationships = simps or pussy whiped in their opinion.

Title	Basically
Author	ToasterII
Upvotes	1523
Comments	32
Date	July 22, 2020 2:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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