Blocked him immediately

Pasdepromesses · 2020-07-25T05:40:21+00:00

What baffles me is the fact that these guys are so willing to immediately walk away at even the tiniest inconvenience for them like not getting your snap or number.

While at the same time they’re whining at how hard it is for them on OLD. That they only get a handful of matches. That they have to date down or in their own league and women can do the hypergamy thing, etc etc.

You’d think they’d value a hard to get OLD match more than walking away so easily.

allegracole77 · 2020-07-25T05:22:53+00:00

The funniest part is him saying “Good luck with that” like you’re the one missing out! 🤣

This man is delusional thinking he’s filet Mignon when he’s grade D ground beef!!

timetofliptables · 2020-07-25T07:01:35+00:00

“Must have found someone else.”

Cus you couldn’t possible just reject him on his own behavior.

What a sad little man.

Sage_Planter · 2020-07-25T05:10:38+00:00

Typical LVM behavior.

Woman: Communicates a minor, but important, boundary.

Man: Gets upset.

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-07-25T04:31:22+00:00

“Move over to snap”: cheat on my wife without leaving a trace behind and/or immediately expect nudes from you without even meeting you in person.

chateauduchat · 2020-07-25T05:17:21+00:00

A long time ago when I used to use OLD, I would immediately drop any man who asked me for my snap. They wouldn't even ask for my number. All it is is a thirst trap. I'm not wasting my time of the day to send you pictures of myself. I got better things to do. TF!???

123psych123 · 2020-07-25T15:13:23+00:00

Next time, don’t preface your boundaries with “sorry”. You have nothing to be sorry for.

LateNightLattes01 · 2020-07-25T08:42:39+00:00

What the hell is p&a with friends??

randomgirlimok · 2020-07-25T15:05:27+00:00

I would block just because he said drinking games.

JimmyMcGil · 2020-07-25T04:28:14+00:00

I’d say good call cuz I am puzzled

Capable_Okra · 2020-07-25T18:12:03+00:00

I do this all the time but I put it more positively: "I'd love to keep our conversation on this app til we meet up if that's okay!" (of course I'm not taking "no it's not OK" for an answer lol. I just say that to appear friendly). It's a fantastic way of testing whether they're actually interested in you and whether they'll respect your boundaries. I've actually never had a guy question it. They either say "oh sure yes" and then disappear completely, or they are accommodating and we continue the conversation. If a man can't understand why I wouldn't give out my number to a stranger, then I don't wanna date him because I don't want to have to do the emotional labor of explaining feminism.

Title	Blocked him immediately
Author	Mediocre_sinner
Upvotes	93
Comments	41
Date	July 25, 2020 4:25 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hxgobz/blocked_him_immediately/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/blocked-him-immediately.717422 https://theredarchive.com/post/717422

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