Dating for three days does not equate to getting sex.

femurfatale · 2019-11-14T17:25:54+00:00

Lol the sacrifice he wants you to make is fucking him? Bwahaha. Way to sell it!

femurfatale · 2019-11-14T17:14:31+00:00

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pinkyberries · 2019-11-14T17:31:57+00:00

Oh my god, this happened to my friend!! She went on a few dates with a guy who kept going on how he wants a relationship and commitment. After the second date they made it official, she had sex with him on the 4th or 5th date within 1 week of dating after he pressured her and said that sex is what makes a relationship official, he flaked. Ignored her for 3 days and eventually texted her "I thought about this and i realized i'm not interested in a relationship" and blocked her.

Even if you are in a relationship, i would not suggest to have sex straight away. wait 2-4 months or longer (its up to you) so if you find out he's a shitty person, it wouldn't affect your decision making and will make most of the men who are only interested in sleeping with you - flake.

TheOGJammies · 2019-11-14T17:44:57+00:00

LOL you’re not even a relationship why would you make sacrifices for him? I hope you dragged him for absolute filth.

2019-11-14T18:25:13+00:00

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Deadgirl1888 · 2019-11-14T19:04:21+00:00

Damn. What an ass hole. I hope you blocked his number. I hate how common this is :( you deserve to be respected! Even with birth control there is always a chance of it failing. Some dudes really aren't worth that risk! When I met my current bf we had made out a lot but he never tried to get me to have sex. I was the one that initiated it because I couldn't wait any longer. First time that has ever happened with a guy.

mypretties · 2019-11-14T20:50:38+00:00

So spending time with you is a “sacrifice”?

CapableLetterhead · 2019-11-14T21:41:46+00:00

3 dates is way too quick unless you're only interested in a fling (as a high libido woman I think that's fine). He can't demand sex on you, sex is like the only card we have, it's the only thing they want. Tolerating and pretending to he interested in you for 3 days is not enough to demand fucking anything from you. What a complete arsehole. Tell him he's quite welcome to fuck himself.

CSQUITO · 2019-11-14T23:35:23+00:00

Woah I just read the edit: thats a massive personality disorder there, and I think you dodged a bullet. With him saying he loved you straight away, that’s too much

randomgirlimok · 2019-11-14T23:38:56+00:00

This is why everyone needs to hold out on sex, to weed these guys out

2019-11-15T01:02:04+00:00

Block his rapey ass and move on.

2019-11-15T01:50:23+00:00

omg the moment a man says i love you on any of the first few dates you drop him

Vespe50 · 2019-11-14T20:28:21+00:00

Lol he think spend time with you is a sacrifice! What a loser! next guy will be better!

CSQUITO · 2019-11-14T23:25:52+00:00

No guy who is ready for a relationship looks for a relationship online -

Ms_Tilly · 2019-11-14T21:16:33+00:00

Boy did you make the right decision and dodge a bullet. That man is nuts! This is how you vet them properly. The 90 day FDS rule. Wait until you actually know them and know what they're like before you sleep with them. Tell them no about anything they want and if they lose their shit, you are dealing with an abusive individual.

Halofriend101 · 2019-11-14T22:06:46+00:00

He's an idiot lol

FDS_Alt · 2019-11-15T02:23:11+00:00

Good for you for standing up for yourself. He doesn't deserve you and he showed his true colors very early. You will find someone that respects you.

kaylazomg · 2019-11-15T03:09:21+00:00

Yes this is why it’s so important to hold off for a while cuz assholes like this!!! They pretend like they’re good guys but when it comes down to it they just want sex from a pretty & kind woman. They have no real intentions of finding something real and genuine, just playing a long the part of a good guy so he can get laid.

sweetlittleflower · 2019-11-17T01:55:06+00:00

He called having sex with him a “sacrifice” hahahhaha. His own words. Not an enjoyable mutually desired activity. These men know they are undesirable lmao

Title	Dating for three days does not equate to getting sex.
Author	Johnna_Dunston
Upvotes	127
Comments	76
Date	November 14, 2019 4:48 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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