Rant here:

While getting to know this piece of shit, I told him that men who had been with a prostitute were big NO for me. So, he lied to me because he wanted to be with me. When I confronted him about it because of a STD result (thank God it was a false alarm), he said that he had been with a prostitute and that she was doing tests all the time, hence she did not have any of the main STDs. Of course, no test of herpes or HPV.

I just said “WAIT WHAT??”, screamed at him and told him he is a piece of shit and a big manipulator. His best friend, another NVM, said that he did nothing wrong and that the relationships are not a contract that must be fulfilled.

On top of that, I told him that I could only date men who wanted to have children and he didn’t. But again, lied for his own sake. He ended up cheating on me in the end, after gaslighting me for months making me believe that I was crazy and paranoid.

Ladies, trust your gut and ask for STD tests. If they refuse, then throw that man. Also, run from the BDSM community. He was a big fan of them and none of the men I know who are into BDSM are not mentally sane.