FDS Mantras as quick reminders. Any suggestions?

AverageToHot · 2020-09-11T06:40:10+00:00

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CassieGreen85 · 2020-09-11T07:06:53+00:00

"If he wanted to, he would do it"

SextMex · 2020-09-11T06:53:56+00:00

"Block, Delete, Move On"

pinkmacaroons · 2020-09-11T08:04:38+00:00

One I catch myself using extremely often when female friends talk about their guys to me is "he KNOWS, sis."

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fm5xsr/he_knows_sis/

It's amazing how often I hear women making excuses for men. "He doesn't know better, he's just not that emotionally developed, he's had a rough childhood, he just didn't think it through, he's just a guy, ..."

Lol. Nah.

They KNOW. They always know.

StrainingMyNeurons · 2020-09-11T08:25:11+00:00

Take mixed signals as a no.

AverageToHot · 2020-09-11T06:42:32+00:00

If you have to wonder, he probably doesn’t care about you.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-09-11T08:38:25+00:00

"When you settle for less you get even less than what you settled for." for dating

"Feel the fear then do it anyway." for general life goals

nenindis · 2020-09-11T09:04:43+00:00

I tend to walk a lot with my head down. Bad tendency from being raised with an abuser. I wrote myself a very tiny stanza and it keeps ringing in my head like a song to remind me straight is the only way to go:

I walk head up, chin high,
Chest all puffed up,
Thinking "Slay!" all the time,
I'm a whole package, royal size.

It works wonders! I immediately straighten my position right up.

BasieSkanks · 2020-09-11T09:30:35+00:00

“If he has to be dragged, leave him behind.”

gracefullrose · 2020-09-11T09:43:44+00:00

My favorites are:

"No" is a complete sentence. and "No" is not the start of a negotiation

newuser20202020 · 2020-09-11T08:41:02+00:00

You are the prize!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-11T16:09:30+00:00

"The 'with you' was silent"

When he says he doesn't want a relationship/doesn't want to get serious etc.

"Punish him with the whip of your indifference"

Forget him. Don't let a LVM hurt you.

"If I'm not cuming, I'm not coming back"

Dump guys that are useless in bed and don't care about your pleasure.

"Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me"

Don't allow men to pull the wool over your eyes or come back into your life once you've kicked them out.

"Stupid is as stupid does"

Don't be stupid. Don't talk yourself into dumb things. (staying with a guy with a broken dick who claims it's not from porn, loan a guy money, date a man who is broke or refuses to get a job, believe a cheater who claims he has changed and won't do it again)

"No backsliding"

No going back to men you've already dumped or blocked or who dumped or blocked you. It doesn't matter what they come back and claim. Respect your past self enough to know that she made the right decision and move on!

"Save your empathy for women"

Men use our empathy against us to manipulate us and get us to put up with things that we shouldn't accept. So we must harden ourselves to men. They also use it to get us to believe lies about their "crazy ex-girlfriend" or how they were really the abused victim in their last relationship or they were the ones that were cheated on. Later you'll often find out that he was the abuser and he was the cheater.

2020-09-11T13:59:19+00:00

Come correct or don't come at all.

disfnal · 2020-09-11T12:41:29+00:00

“If I have to beg for it, I don’t want it”!

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2020-09-11T21:44:45+00:00

Real men pay for real dates.

Walks, drinks, and/or coffee aren't real dates.

fantan99 · 2020-09-11T15:13:59+00:00

This is so cute! Are you collating them in an an excel file or something? If so, could you share it? It would be hella cute to set up like a daily automatic text reminders to myself!

Title	FDS Mantras as quick reminders. Any suggestions?
Author	PeriAntoinette
Upvotes	39
Comments	23
Date	September 11, 2020 5:51 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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