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[–]psychsenseFDS Apprentice185 points186 points187 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Also: “I just want a chill girl” Translation: I want a full grown woman to be “chill” almost like she’s high on weed and Xanax all of the time. No back talking, will laugh at anything I say, doesn’t set boundaries, and does everything I want her to do. She must be relaxed 100% of the time and never be mad at me even when I cheat. Girls that yell are mean and scary. :(
[–]madamejesaistoutFDS Newbie68 points69 points70 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oohhh so that's why I have such a problem dating! Not enough weed and Xanax!!
Also yelling usually means "stating my expectations clearly and firmly"
[–]psychsenseFDS Apprentice43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol anything outside of compliance is considered yelling to them 😂
[–]TheWarmestHugzFDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
My ex had this on his profile and he ended up being emotionally abusive. So it’s definitely a red flag for me.
[–]psychsenseFDS Apprentice19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m so sorry. I’m glad to hear he’s your EX and you got away from that toxic mess.
[–]TheWarmestHugzFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I don’t know what I saw in him tbh, he was nasty and sat at home smoking weed. Worst mistake ever! I just view it as a reason to improve! :)
[–]psychsenseFDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. The more bullshit you deal with the more you learn about their ways. Their gaslighting, excuses, manipulation. You’re a stronger and more knowledgeable person for it. Keep on leveling up! :)
[–]FoundryLogo6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you me? I look back on that relationship and cringe.
[–]LegalJailbait11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My piece of shit abusive brother has exactly that kind of girl. Will laugh at anything, follows him like a lost puppy, does anything he wants and whenever he wants and is not allowed to get mad at him or have constructive conversations because he "just wants a positive day" and she's "bringing this up to ruin his mood". Weed and xanax? He tells her to open her mouth and puts whatever pills in there, then some more if there's side effects.
I will NEVER be a doormat like that. Young women like that desperately need therapy to realise their worth. I know for a FACT that when he goes to jail in a couple months, she'll find someone just as shitty unless she changes her mindset.
[–]giniepFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
YIKES so true. Will physically assault you. Been there, done that, so toxic and manipulative. Got. To. Go.
[–]tarakiller22FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
oh fuck. I've done this.. :\
[–]ScotsburdFDS Disciple55 points56 points57 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mute, doormat bangmaid please!
[–]riseaboveagainFDS Apprentice96 points97 points98 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or, it means “I just wanna bang and don’t wanna actually listen to anything you have to say”
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women with independent thoughts and feelings have "baggage" in ManSpeak(TM)
[–]JanedolaFDS Newbie67 points68 points69 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I fucking hate the "positive vibes only" shit. Sure didn't help my brother cope after a classmate raped him. Or me when my teachers told me to "lighten up" after a goddamn suicide attempt. Life isn't all sunshine and positivity. We aren't living in an Instagram collage made for guys to jerk off to
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
it’s cringe af and just straight up performative. I find people who say this and talk about how enlightened they are on social media are the worst type of people irl.
[–]JanedolaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anybody that's truly happy doesn't need to go around saying they're happy constantly
[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist81 points82 points83 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I swiped left on one for putting "I want a girl who will call me out on my bullshit because I will enjoy calling her out on hers".
Was that supposed to intice women? I couldn't swipe left fast enough.
[–]viper8472FDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's awful.
[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist54 points55 points56 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also "I'll never support in anything because you are only a piece of pussy to me"
[–]sofiacarolinaFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My other favorite (as in immediate nope) is "here for a good time, not a long time" vomit emoji
[–]Babenyc79FDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Isn’t this the truth!!!!! The minute women express there feelings, emotions and hurt we are then labeled “crazy”. It’s a tale as old as time!
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[–]riseaboveagainFDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You know all these men who whine and cry about how haaard it is to meet women online? This is one of them. Meeting women is easy. Unless you’re a revolting turd LVM 😂
[–]freedandelionsFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hmm, I always interpreted it as “don’t turn my life into a negative complain-fest” We all know someone like that.
[–]DeezBaeFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same. When I think good vibes only I think of keeping narcissists out if my life. What man puts " good vibes only" on a profile? Literally never seen this.
[–]viper8472FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree. I think this person just wants to find a match that isn't depressed or has a disaster life. That's fair.
They probably had an ex that was a disaster, that's why they put things like that on there. "Ok this time..."
[–]jsmnhwll1FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have said this for so long!!!!!!
[–]ceramicunicornFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Want Realistic Fembot”
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I have the maturity to realize that loading oneself with other people's problems and constantly worrying about how to help them and pushing them to do things while barely being able to navigate ones own life, is ultimately draining and causing negative effects and experiences for both and as I realize this Id rather find someone equally goal oriented who I can share reward and encouragement feelings with in order to continuously grow and enjoy life as an adult person
[–]durtari3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Which is great! Surround yourself with supportive people and positivity.
There's just a lot of avoidant passive aggressive behavior out there hiding behind good vibes and no drama. Life gets dramatic sometimes, and you need to properly communicate and express it. If people avoid that because it's uncomfortable instead of trying to face it and grow then it speaks to their immaturity. If people can't take constructive criticism and prefer to keep their heads in the sand and call me dramatic, well, suit yourself.
[–]FluffandRaincloudsFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right, it's a doublespeak issue. "Good vibes only" = "I probably won't be supportive when shit hits the fan (like a death or normal stress)"
[–]navigating-lifeFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I thought “Good vibes only” meant don’t spoil my day with your fucking negativity. Guess I was wrong. I say that shit to people all the time
[–]johnmulaneyismydadFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my gawddddd - followed immediately.
[–]MollzorFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yesss, thank you, I will be binging this later in the bathtub! I sometimes get the urge to download Tinder again, but then I just scroll through old screenshots and I feel "I would rather be alone than to deal with this shit".
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