Between June and September 2019 I was in a situationship with this guy. Never made it official, tonnes of red flags etc. He left me for another woman who he eventually got engaged to.

Today I received the news from his ex fiancee that he had been arrested for assault as he put his hands around her throat during an argument. She spoke to the police and he was eventually charged with assault, criminal damage, rape and voyeurism.

Why does this involve me? Well it turns out the little scrote was audio recording every time I went round to his. Every conversation and every time we had sex had been recorded. Hours upon hours of it. He would press record on his phone as soon as I arrived and stop it when I left. I had absolutely no idea this was happening. He did it to me, to his fiancee and two other women.

I feel sick and a bit dirty as he was obviously getting off to listening to our sex sessions but I also have to laugh because there must have been hours of mundane conversation to go through just to listen to 30 mins max of sex noises.

Men and their depravity, eh?

Edit: it hadn't sunk in when I first wrote this post which is why I don't seem bothered. Hours later and now I am so deflated. Only 2 weeks ago I found out an ex colleague had been charged with possessing CP and now this.