Men have it so hard 😢

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-10-17T07:47:06+00:00

Hope she gets picked for being the cool girl

ello-motto · 2021-10-17T10:28:46+00:00

I remember in my early 20s us young women were given the dating strategy to "not mention weddings or children" on the first date, so that we don't scare men off.

It's actually a joke how women have been pressured into not speaking about this topic, just so men can have it easier to not commit? Fuck that.

I think women should be fine with stating their expectations, especially if they're marriage-minded. If the scrote feels threatened by it, even better. We want to weed out the LVMs as quick as possible.

The right man with matching intentions wouldn't be put off.

honeybadgerattitude · 2021-10-17T00:39:34+00:00

I’m noticing that women are very often “othered” even by women. She describes us as some sort of generic non-human entity as if she’s not a woman herself! I can’t see what it gains her either because the comments are just men being vile to her and women in general. Complete fail at being the “cool, not like other girls”. It’s really sad.

MyLifeIsWandsXIII · 2021-10-17T03:11:49+00:00

Women get killed, raped, etc. by men and yet they (men) have it soooo hard. I wish that our "problems" and worries were this miniscule but instead we get possible rape, murder, and harrassment.

Nonnasaysfuckoff · 2021-10-17T01:47:37+00:00

Imagine how brainwashed, and desperate for male attention you have to be to act like this. This is why we say pickmes are a danger to you. It's female socialization itself to expect women to save everyone, I assure you a pickme is very deep in the patriarchal sauce, and much like a drug addict they'll do anything for their fix. Even put you in danger or outright hurt you.

Japanese-Spaghetti · 2021-10-17T15:35:42+00:00

Anna Akana is a pick me. She is miserable and desperate. Her channel is essentially a constant cry for help. I don’t recommend watching her. I followed some of her “sex and dating tips” in the past and it did not help me whatsoever. I highly suggest people only watch her for entertainment, NOT advice

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2021-10-17T02:41:30+00:00

And this one comment:

I was with you until “girls take hours to get ready so guys should pay” thing. That’s absolute garbage.

Lmao. But I bet you this guy would absolutely trash his date for not wearing a cost-heavy amount of makeup that took hours to apply if she showed up to the date in jeans and a tshirt.

ihavenoideadwhatimdo · 2021-10-17T14:44:10+00:00

Her pinned comment apologizing for acting entitled to her date’s kisses… what an idiot

mypetchickens · 2021-10-17T03:39:08+00:00

Ah yes. My fears are safety related-making sure my friends/family know where I am. Making sure that I have my own transportation home so I'm safe. Totally the same thing. *Eyeroll

If he wanted to treat you better, he would.

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2021-10-17T00:45:54+00:00

I am tired of going into to great detail how woman have long had it hard when dating, and had little to no choice in their mate. It become moot when the masses are upset because a standard men created, a joke, and consent is still the topic of discussion. What's the point of talking about the average woman is in far more physical, sexual, emotional, and mental danger than the average man on a first date. When you are discussing things that already have an answer to them.

Men set the standard of paying for dates. So if they wanna be pissed at someone be pissed at the cheese dick men who set the standard in first place.
A joke is a joke, you feel it goes to far you speak up or move on
Consent can be taken and given at anytime. A woman or man can be completely naked and say no and it should NOT hurt your feeling they said no. If that makes you upset you are high key a weirdo and don't need to dating.

catifyy · 2021-10-17T13:07:50+00:00

As a bi myself, if I date a woman then paying 50/50 is fine by me. But you never compare dating a woman to dating a man as a woman yourself. The people in the comments are super misogynistic and filled with men, surprised she hasn’t taken it down.

Snugglyy · 2021-10-17T02:05:36+00:00

Ugh, this creator used to be promising maybe back in 2015 but yeah, she’s a total pickme. I can only deal with her in small doses. Just a lot of bad-faith acting in the name of cool girl and mental health awareness.

Worldly-Efficiency-9 · 2021-10-18T18:53:56+00:00

Watching her makes me think about all these incels complaining about women.

Afraid of commitment and marriage jokes?, then maybe don’t date? Annoyed that the other girl didn’t make a move?, why don’t you take the initiative?

Also, I’m bi and while I don’t mind going Dutch in dates with women, every time I ask a girl out I don’t mind paying. If she likes me and wants to see me again that’s great and if not that’s also okay. Why are men and pickmes like her so fragile to go home crying and complaining because their egos have been bruised. Get a grip, we’re all grown ups.

Title	Men have it so hard 😢
Author	asteria2002
Upvotes	318
Comments	24
Date	October 17, 2021 12:25 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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