Men: you’re going to end up over 40, single, and childless. Also men: dumps us in our mid 30s after wasting years of our lives. Lol okay bye Felicia. Thanks for helping me realize having children wo

Novemberinthechair · 2021-10-10T21:50:04+00:00

Do men really convince themselves they're never going to die?

CatusCactus · 2021-10-13T13:05:04+00:00

Men really think getting older and being single is a death sentence🙄They're just projecting their own fears because they know that single men tend to be lonely and have have a lower quality of life.

Women will always be more in demand then men, and we have friends and animals to keep us company. On Twitter I always see men using scare tactics like ”you’re going to a lonely cat lady“ to women who won’t lower their standards for trash men, when in reality women are better off living their own lives however they wish.

jkklfdasfhj · 2021-10-13T08:45:46+00:00

Strong case for not being a PickMe, having time limits for relationships to progress ie forever girlfriend, never stopping the vetting process as the reality of being dumped in your 30s after wasting your 20s on a scrote. Young ladies beware

LR_today · 2021-10-13T09:14:45+00:00

She is in danger. I had this exact thing happen at 34 and ended up meeting a narcissist who decimated my progress (and financial stability) in 1 year! She needs to be really fucking careful and importantly: NEEDS THIS SUB.

Also, guys that waste 5+ years of a woman's life in her 20s and dump her in her 30s so he can go after younger women? Lowest scum on earth.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-10-10T21:40:44+00:00

He’s an idiot

xfelugirlx · 2021-10-13T13:21:28+00:00

Good for her, she’s way too pretty and emotional intelligent to him anyway. Letting go is self love. Idk why men think this is bad like she’s looking good and happier without him and most of them age badly so

Maingurl · 2021-10-13T13:51:32+00:00

The view from her balcony 😩😩😩!

quasarbar · 2021-10-13T17:57:25+00:00

And how many of these men think they can reach their forties (or fifties, or...) and just snap up a twenty-something young woman to have children with when they finally decide they're ready?

Why would a young woman want a middle-aged manchild who let the clock run out?

He might not have the same biological clock as a woman, but he's still asking that

His (hypothetical) younger wife sign up for the statistically high probability of early widowhood, which nobody wants if they marry for anything other than an inheritance (and we all know how men feel about "gold diggers" aside from the fact that these middle aged scrotes aren't rich anyway).
His future children will grow up having a father who will be an old man when they're still very young, maybe even still children. He may be too old to do fun things with them. He may kick the bucket when they're in college and cause them the emotional difficulty of dealing with his death while in the middle of exams or something.
His future grandchildren will probably never even know him, especially while he's still young enough to be any fun at all.

This is extremely selfish.

Men, if you ever want to have children, don't wait out the clock just because you think you can. That's a horrible thing to do to the family you want to have.

Pasdepromesses · 2021-10-14T10:39:01+00:00

This happened to me.

From a young age I knew I wanted to be childfree and carefree. My LV ex convinced me it would be a good thing to have a baby together, because we would be a team and I - as a mother - would naturally be happy with the decision afterwards (it's a trap, don't fall for it). Because I have the rule 'no creating offspring out of wedlock', we were going to get married (he already bought the ring) and we were looking for our ideal 'family home'.

Turned out he was cheating on me with his supermodel ex gf when I was visiting my terminally ill father in the hospital in the weekends.

This was 2,5 years ago and I'm living my best life. I have a new job that gives me more financial freedom - even when I'm paying for EVERYTHING myself - than when I was living with my ex. I'm definitely childfree now and won't let anyone ever change my mind. I'm also very happy to be with myself and only let people in who are a (predominantly) positive factor in my life. My friendships and relationships with my siblings and mother really improved and got way stronger and more fun!

As for dating, I've only dated 1 man seriously for half a year and I wasn't afraid to walk away when I spotted a red flag. I am now in the beginning (first month) of dating my 'new' seemingly HVM. Both guy's are 8 figure men. Dating truly brought some positive things to my life, especially if you are following FDS rules. Even when they turned out to be LV and I had to walk away, I was in a space where I got to enjoy myself and really tap into my feminine energy. These men have been very attentive and generous with me. I've been wined and dined, taken to the opera and ballet, parties, yachts, Switzerland and Italy. The sex with the first one was amazing and seeing how focussed on my needs in general this new man is, I suspect it will be good this time around too (still waiting). There is never a dull moment if I want to do something, but also enough me time if I want some peace and quiet.

There are also multiple other men who want me to call them if 'this doesn't work out'.

I really thought my life was over when my LV ex cheated on me. But in reality, a LVM doing you wrong truly is a blessing. It was a sign of the universe that I was on the wrong path and not listening to my own wants and needs. All this to keep my LV man?!

I'm still looking for my HVM, but to be honest, I wouldn't mind if I stayed single for the rest of my life and focus on my other relationships (family, friends, volunteering). I learned to never act out of a scarcity mindset, because where one door closes a better one opens.

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