Are I think the most telling thing imaginable. Even after extensively scouring the internet, I can't find any men complaining about women for any reason that isn't tied to misogyny. Men are not worried about women not loving them, they don't feel used ever, they don't think women have trouble connecting with them emotionally.

They complain that:

women are "used up": irrelevant to their relationship

Women are not submissive enough: misogyny

Women have standards: misogyny

Thats it. The only thing a woman can do wrong in a man's eyes is not take his shit, not fuck him, and fuck someone who's not him.

If men saw us as full human beings they'd want to talk about women not meeting emotional needs, trouble with intimacy, sharing household duties, supporting careers, you know all the things that actually make a relationship real.

But they don't, you don't see men looking for women who are intelligent, funny, successful, passionate, or any other personality trait outside of "submissive". And you don't see them complaining that they can't find a woman with these traits either.