Just wanted to share a slight victory after finally separating and divorcing my ex husband of 16 years. This morning I picked the kids up and I brought up something related to something financial and he just did what he always does which is gaslight and bullsht and turn it around on me and make himself the victim. Booohoooo. I stayed for so long because he’s extremely good at manipulative kind games and me being pretty normal and straight forward couldn’t wrap my heart around it because I can’t and don’t think it act like that so I stayed and thought u was at blame. Anything so he tried to pull that sht on me this morning and I, in my most deadpan, unemotional, Grey rock, registered Nurse face and voice told him in no explicit terms that XYZ is due that that I’ll go through the proper Aka legal channels to get what I am owed. Long story I’m not going into it right now.

So that set him off and he proceeded to have his 100% typical and expected toddler-esque temper tantrum and when I didn’t budge, get intimidated or apologize he stomped off fuming.

I get home and got this email asking why I am now so aggressive and that he logged in and paid it. Yes my being “aggressive” just was so unexpected. I didn’t cry, I didn’t apologize, I didn’t look scared. I just stop giving into his sh*t so that made me “aggressive”.

🤷🏻‍♀️ oh you think I’m aggressive now. Just wait. I’m 100% over his kr@p.

Just wanted to share