As the cost of living rises, housing is one of the top issues worldwide. My US-ladies know rent is out of control here! Let alone the cost of buying a house. We are all familiar with hobosexuals who try to move into your place because they have nowhere else to go. They are parasites looking for a home. But many aren't familiar with part-time parasites that flourish in expensive cites with well-educated men like NYC, LA, Silicone Valley, DMV, etc. See these men aren't homeless. They often have well-paying jobs and can afford a decent place. But they're cheap! Like the bf scrote in the studio apartment post they will room with multiple roommates, live in distant, inconvenient suburbs that are cheaper, have a comfortless place with no amenities. And they expect you to make up the difference!

I've known guys who bragged about living in basement apartments and stacking their cash-while sleeping over their girlfriend's nice, spacious place every night. So while he drops maybe $800 in rent at his place, with a little dribble for the utilities he never uses, she's paying $2,000+ in rent, plus her utilities and food bills are off the charts because he's using her hot water, gaming on her tv, and eating there nightly! Eventually, he'll have enough for a house down payment and she'll have a lot of bills and wasted energy. We're already suffering because of the gender wage gap, ladies, don't let men use up the money you do have.

Or if these men do have their own apartment/house, they're either a fucking mess or in the middle of nowhere so it becomes “more convenient “to stay at yours because these guys work in the city but are too cheap to pay city rent so they live an hour outside of town. I don’t care if a guy is a techbro or engineer in the valley making crazy money, these guys are more headaches than they’re worth because they’re still cheap leeches. They brag on their salary, but they still want to live off of your largesse and spend all their own money on toys and take out. Just no!

Your space, whether you rent or own, is an asset. And like sex, we protect it from scrotes. When a man asks you questions about your living situation, evade them. He asks where you live, keep it general. Give the neighborhood name only and turn the convo. e.g. "I live in Bedstuy and you?" He asks if you live alone, lie. A man with good intentions won't care, a user will be turned off. An HVM is never measuring a woman's assets. Think of how many secretly married men rely on the woman having a space they can meet. Listen closely to what he says. General questions are fine but if he's asking you how big your place is or how much rent you pay, he's casing the joint or trying to figure out your income. Either way, no bueno. Run.

I moved into my own one bedroom in a city almost as expensive as New York and I have not let one guy know that I’m living by myself. No man has crossed my threshold in the 6+ months I’ve lived here. Men in these big, expensive cosmopolitan cities are like hobosexuals with their own homes. They always have a bunch of roommates or live alone in a dirty, comfortless place, but they want to lay up with you in your large, expensive, glorious solo apartment and juice you for labor. F that. No house dates, no "chilling", no casual anything. If you become serious down the line, you can always tell him your roommate moved out or you changed apartments. But telling a man you live alone is like telling him you're NLOG. It attracts users. And it's a safety thing.