All of men's issues with women's sexuality come from them projecting their view of sex onto us. Check it out. What do men think women who date a lot are doing? Having tons of sex! LVM accuse every woman who doesn't look like Quasimodo and who lives outside of a nunnery of riding the CC. But here's the really important bit: what kind of sex do they think you were having with this rotation of men? The most vulgar, pornified, filthy sex imaginable. Now as women we know this is completely false, but LVM think that because they are projecting. That is what they are doing! That's why they are on Tinder and in bars looking for ONS and NSA hookups. To use and discard after they have fulfilled their every fetish. And they just presume that's what women do too, that's why they are forever wondering about a woman's past, obsessing about if she did more or freakier stuff with another man. This is also why scrotes have dead bedrooms after they’ve been married a while or their wives have children. The Madonna-Whore Complex is a killer. They see their wives as people now, mothers no less, the horror! The irony is, it's all in their heads. If you want a look inside women's minds, look at what's popular among women now- Bridgerton, a Regency-set show about courtship and romance. There's a reason Jane Austen's books are perennially bestsellers. That's what we want! Respect and genuine gentle courtship that focuses on our minds and spirits that will blossom into a long-lasting sensual marriage.

For me and pretty much all women, you need trust to be able to fully let go and have real intimacy in bed. People try to gaslight women into thinking they are frigid or broken for not feeling 100% comfortable with a stranger doing the most private things imaginable to your body after one date. This person doesn't know you, hasn't committed to you, you don't know them, but you're too demanding if you're hesitant to leap into bed. What creates "good sex circumstances" for LVM is anonymity and distance. They have to be able to dehumanize their partner before they can use her. What creates the ideal sex/lovemaking circumstances for HVW and HVM is closeness, trust, intimacy, and commitment. I was just thinking today when I have the safety and security of marriage, that will be some hot sex! Can't wait.